I used to look forward to a better life

I used to look forward to a better life in the future. It would be great if I could work in the same city or not far away from my best friend, either of the opposite sex or of the same sex. Everyone has their own house, whether they rent it or pay off the mortgage. When they get off work or have a day off, if they are in a bad mood, they will ride to their friends' den and spend the whole day telling them what they think, nagging about their complaints and gossiping about the news around them. When the mood gets better, Hand in hand with friends (opposite sex friends side by side) to find a barbecue stand, have a cup of clear, cool draft beer, chew a mouthful of tender gravy mixed with blood on the outside. In a bad mood? Not happy? Long ago vanished into thin air... It got scattered. Food is the kindest, it will not refuse anyone, eat enough, you will not be lonely. If you're in a good mood, call four or five friends, get a tent, grab some food, and drive to a nearby scenic spot for a night or two, away from the streets, where a bunch of people eat barbecue around an open fire, play cards and puzzles, sing and dance... I think this is what young people should live, not the so-called rush to meet people rush to make money rush to put a label on their own.

I used to dream of a better life in the future, with a suitable husband who didn't earn much money, who didn't have to work inexplicable overtime at every turn, a sensible mother-in-law and a responsible husband, who didn't have to worry about the so-called "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" relationship every day, and who didn't have to try to figure out "what's behind each other's stories", and who lived a leisurely life with my husband in a modest house. Sometimes they do their own things and don't disturb each other. Sometimes they feel like two big kids at home.

I used to hope for a better future, where my husband didn't have to worry about what would happen if I went out to dinner alone with a friend of the opposite sex, and I didn't have to worry all day about whether my husband would despise my aging face and deformed body. Because we both know exactly what we want! Love a person to believe in this person, isn't it? Even if you find yourself cheated one day, he'll always be there for you when you need him, and he won't just reply "um" or "ah" with an impatient interjections while you argue about whether The Croods or Frozen is better... If that can be called being cheated, then I'd rather be cheated. Even if it doesn't take long for you to find yourself being cheated on, you should thank your husband for being so "honest", so that you can have a chance to find someone more suitable for you, so that you can have a chance to pursue the life you really want.

I used to look forward to a better life in the future, where my friends and I, my family and I could grow up together, either by walking in the same place together, or by acquiring new knowledge and experiences together. I don't want a high-status husband with whom all I can communicate is "What did you eat today"; I don't want to provide my husband with a clean home and meals to order; I don't want him telling me a funny joke and then explaining to me why it's funny; I don't want him to look incomprehension when I pack my bags and go hiking. I don't want to be excited to grab a friend's hand and say we're going to buy the finished Game of Thrones, only to have her eyes full of confusion and say she's only interested in My Love from the Star. I don't want me to just be with you all the time, but already separated more and more far away.

The wonderful life I had hoped for in the future, I hoped that I would have two children, a boy and a girl would be the best. A child is too lonely, after all, the child's world can not be freely integrated into adults even though they have experienced it before. If he has a brother and sister, they can ignore the carelessness of adults and "inexplicable" irritability and worry, and happily play with his brother and sister, they can share the little secrets that belong only to their children. I want them to be healthy, and when it comes to learning, that's the best. I tell him, "Son, I'm asking you to study hard, not because I want you to compare your grades, but because I want you to have a choice in the future, to choose meaningful work that takes time, instead of being forced to make a living. When your work has meaning in your mind, you have a sense of accomplishment. When your work gives you time and doesn't rob you of your life, you have dignity. A sense of accomplishment and dignity, give you joy." What Long Yingtai said, tell him what I expect of them, but if they really do not want to do this, as long as you promise not to do illegal things not to play gambling, I will not be too forced to your life, although I sent you to this world, because you gave me the hope of living another life, but your life is yours, I will leave you one day, It's also important to recognize early on that you are where you are because of your past choices, not because someone else forced you to be. You are responsible for your own life. But the most important point is that I will tell you some adult rules of the world at the right age. You should not be afraid of outsiders' threats to you. You should believe that the person who loves you most in the world is your mother.

I used to look forward to a beautiful future life, my family, my friends, please believe that I am an inarticulate "bigoted", sometimes I will have some strange ideas and inexplicable, mood swings and occasionally cold war to you, but if I believe that you are my friend, you are my family, for this kind of God is afraid of trouble, Hate complex interpersonal relationship "loser", endure full of "good trouble" just kind of a friend, how can I easily betray you, even if I rarely contact you, rarely talk to you, basically and you have no reciprocating, but if you have difficulties, you just tell me, I will do my best, but this premise is, you have to believe me, I can put up with a lot of things, but I can't stand people's suspicion of me, I don't know how to do to win the trust of others, but I also don't know how to skillfully deceive others, I just want a simple relationship, if you are not careful to make the relationship between you and me too complex, then please don't blame me why quietly slowly fade out of your vision.

I used to look forward to a better life in the future, to be a simple person, met a group of simple friends, found a simple husband, this life is enough.

I used to look forward to a better life in the future, just like these two lovely pigs. I captured half a month, finally caught your "little warmth", quack quack quack!