Love is a choice

"Love is a free choice, not a forced obligation." This is a quote from Dr. Mill, an American psychologist.

Love is a duty, but it is not imposed on us from outside, it is a need within us, a choice we make for ourselves. Love, whether it is for a spouse, a child, a parent, or a friend, is a choice, a free decision. This freedom to choose makes their relationships richer and better! It is also reflected in the growth of healthy interpersonal interactions, and the space and scale that is exhibited.

Love, is the happy union of two people who love each other, in the moment of love, perhaps no one will think that maybe one day, this beautiful love will also come to an end. When the feelings, marriage cracks, when the red light, break up is the inevitable choice. But apart, many people face setbacks, it is like falling into a huge black hole, constantly falling, falling, until death.

In fact, although love is an indispensable part of life, but it is not the whole of a person's life, when love is gone, you can also use career, friendship, family, children's love, and the worldly love that you need to help in the human world, to fill the gap it creates. You may want to put into practice those things that you have always wanted to do before but didn't, and once your attention has shifted, your emotions will be better accordingly. Because, the breakdown of love should not take away the gorgeous colors of your dreams, instead, you should bet more enthusiasm in your dreams, which will not only divert your attention, but more importantly, allow you to discover your true value without losing yourself in this whirlwind.

But people often hold on to something lost, constantly coloring the lost in their memories to make it more perfect in their own imagination. In fact, yesterday, for us it will only ever be a memory, it is impossible to start over again, if you always live in the memory of yesterday, then you will never be happy today.

There are various flowers in every season of the year, week after week, and the valuable thing about remembering the past is that it helps us to live better instead of getting in the way. There are many things in life that are always experienced before you know its true meaning. Learn to bury yesterday at the bottom of your heart, leaving the best memories, learn to start easily, all over the love will not be engraved in your heart. The love you once said, today is still love you, but this love is deep and shallow, come to today has not been easy, gently pull out the hand, say goodbye, really thankful, this road has you.

Life is a journey full of dangers, when we cross the step of birth, but also step towards death. Accidents and diseases can take away our lives at any time, so what's the reason why we don't make this only once life become colorful? Treat your life well and let the flower of life turn into a rainbow of seven colors. In the face of life, we are the only director, only to learn to choose, know how to give up in order to understand life thoroughly, in order to have a broad sky of life.

Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, the painful pursuit does not make life more complete. Love is all about fate, fate comes and goes, not necessarily to pursue who is right and who is wrong. The first thing you need to do is to get in the mood, keep going, miss the flowers, you will harvest the rain, miss him, I will meet you. Keep going, when you close a window, there will be another door open for you.

Love is a crash from the heart, not a forced obligation.