Whether a person is great or not, never depends on the mind, but on the three kinds of advanced thinking within

What determines whether a person is great or not is never our mind, but our inner three fundamental minds. Thinking is our mastery of the laws of things and is the root of our inner mind power.

In the process of growing up, the reason we have internal conflict is essentially having the wrong thinking. Most of the pain on the growth path is a reminder that we need to be aware of and change ourselves.

If we want to achieve in our lives, we can master three fundamental types of thinking that are key to shaping our lives.

Strong motivation for self-achievement

A person can truly become awesome not by seeing things on the surface, but from a deep-seated sense of self-worth realization.

Self-worth realization tends to propel a person toward excellence. Self-worth realization is the construction of meaning that we desire to realize ourselves in the world and society.

Self-worth realization is the key that drives our gradual integration with society and the key to seeing ourselves recognized and in demand.

The most advanced growth comes from self-actualization, the expression of self-socialization and seeing the value of the self, and the ability to find a place for ourselves in the adaptation of socialization.

If we just pursue a job during our growth, this does not allow us to be able to realize our own life, often we just passively adapt.

And when you find the meaning of your own life, you no longer do anything just to survive the stage, but to the stage of the meaning of life, which is the key to our growth breakthrough and growth building.

The realization of self-worth will drive us to continue to move forward, and we will continue to think about the path to achieving ourselves and actual action. As Kazuo Inamori said, only a strong motivation to achieve can lead you to where you want to go.

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Super Resilience

In the process of life growth, more than intelligence and IQ, what determines how far a person can go is our inner resilience. Resilience is strong resistance to stress in the face of setbacks and adversity.

If we don't know how to clean up our inner wounds in time, we will easily lose the motivation to move forward and become haggard in the face of uncertainty.

The most important thing about growth is having resilience, and strong resilience comes from our perspective of re-understanding things. When we can realize that there are many sides to everything, if we just focus on the negative perspective of things, then we will ignore the gift of growth behind it.

When we are willing to look at our setbacks and downfalls with a positive and uplifting perspective, we realize that this is the path that life must take.

This necessary path means that we need to see the wisdom that life releases, and as we embrace this wisdom, we grow.

Life is never an escape, but a process of constant confrontation. When you know how to face it you will deeply understand that all the homework that growth has not accomplished will create one obstacle after another in your life until you are willing to clear it.

Those obstacles are like sand in our shoes, and if you don't know how to pay attention to them, then you can't grow.

Having strong resilience is what gives us the right perspective to correctly interpret setbacks and less-than-ideal situations. This right perspective brings positive acceptance and encouragement, allowing us to build more courage and wisdom as we face them again and again.

Release emotions and have a peaceful state of mind

The third trait of a great person is knowing how to release emotions and have a peaceful state of mind. Everyone has emotions.

Emotions are a signal, an instinctive wisdom that we humans have evolved over the years. Emotions remind us that we need to take care of ourselves.

When we have an emotion, it is most important that we see the need behind it, read its cues, and know how to use them to better accomplish our own lives.

For example, sadness is a reminder that life is unpredictable and we need to know how to cherish the people around us. The emotion of anger is a reminder that we need to maintain our boundaries.

We listen to our emotions, and we know that the best way to honor them and release them is to do what they remind us to do.

Essentially, we need to see ourselves through our emotions, express ourselves, and connect with ourselves and others. So having emotions is a normal thing, and it is a very irresponsible practice for those thickheads to teach that people don't need emotions.

And to observe and grow with emotions is the best way to respect ourselves and a kind of wisdom and growth for us. Everyone has emotions, and there is no right or wrong emotion. The most important thing about emotions is to maintain the principle of neutrality, and according to the psychological law of Jekyll and Dodson, it is found that when the level of emotional arousal is at a moderate level, i.e., when the inner balance is the most balanced, the efficiency and effectiveness in accomplishing learning tasks as well as decision-making are the best.

Growth in life is really about mastering these three major positive mindsets and literacies. When we have the highest level of wisdom to manage ourselves well, our lives will also continue to show very positive strength, which is the best respect for ourselves and the key to our ability to continue to blossom.