No couple, just be a lifelong confidant

01.

If you love someone, your greatest wish is to be married to them, to hold the hand of your son, to grow old with your son, for the rest of your life, and never to be separated.

However, not all people who love each other sincerely can get what they want, otherwise, there will not be so many difficulties in love.

The biggest regret in life is to love each other sincerely but not to be a couple, is also the deepest hidden pain inside, even with a lifetime of time is difficult to let go.

Just like he and she, teenage acquaintance, mutual affection, together through the youth, love each other to the depths, but because of the reality of being forced to break up. They each got married and had their own families, but deep inside they always thought of each other and never forgot.

They used to look forward to the future together, imagining their life after marriage, although only imagined, but felt immensely happy. At that time, they thought that the person they would be in their lives must be each other, so they thought long term. But fate pulled their hands apart, and there was no more after that.

In this world, many people love each other but cannot be together. If you ask why it is just a "fate but no separation".

There is a fate to love each other, no fate of the couple, the rest of their lives can only be put in the heart, silent thoughts, this is what kind of heartache, what kind of helplessness?

I think only those who have experienced it personally can understand the taste and know the pain.

02.

The people who love each other can not be a couple, the end must be regretted, is sad? Not really. Some people, although not a couple, became a lifelong confidants.

It is indeed a pity that people who love each other do not have a chance to be a couple, but if they can become lifelong confidants, it is great happiness. You should know that a confidant is rarer than a lover, and a confidant's love is purer than a couple's love.

The couple is the worldly companionship, and the confidant is the soul's acquaintance. The companionship in the world can only make people no longer lonely, but the soul's knowledge can make people no longer lonely.

If people who love each other are not destined to be together in the world, they should be soulmates for life. The soulmates are enough to make up for all the regrets and comfort all the sorrows.

An online friend told her story.

She and he met on the internet, bonded over words, appreciated each other, and loved each other, but they were not destined to be together, because they met at the wrong time, too late, each other are already in the siege.

He said that if he had met her ten years earlier, it would have been better. At that time he was not married, and she was not married, and everything is still in time. Although they are separated by thousands of mountains and rivers, he will cross the mountains and seas to meet her and be with her.

She said, this encounter is late is a little late, but there is no need to regret it, some people may not be able to meet a real heart in their lifetime. This life is not a couple, then do a lifetime of confidant, but also good.

Yes, some people, meet is already on the lottery, and why ask for too much?

03.

A confidant can be met but not sought. If you can meet one among thousands, you are already lucky to have three lives.

If the people who love each other can not be together in the name of husband and wife, then it is the identity of the soul to accompany the soul of a confidant, a lifetime, a long time, is not another kind of harvest, another kind of happiness.

A confidant is two people who know each other, care about each other, and cherish each other.

The first thing you need to do is to get to know the person you are talking to, and then you will have someone to listen to your heart, someone to feel the pain, and someone to understand what you are thinking. After all, life is trivial and complicated, most likely to consume feelings and mutual resentment.

I like the phrase: "life a confidant, enough to comfort the wind and dust."

In this life, if you can have a real confidant, it will not be a trip to earth in vain, a trip to the red earth.

The existence of a soulmate is incomparable and is the desire of countless people. So, if people who love each other are not destined to be together, they may as well become confidantes to keep each other company and comfort each other for life.

If you don't have a chance to be a couple, you can be a confidant, which is another kind of fulfillment of love. The actual people who can do this, how many of them?