When You’re “Just a Therapist”
A Therapist's Thoughts
People say,
“Can I just run something past you?”
and before you answer,
You’re knee-deep in their trauma
with no shoes on.
They don’t ask if you’re tired.
They don’t ask if you’re full.
They don’t ask if you’ve already held
Six lives together that day.
They just say,
“But you’re a therapist,”
as if that means
You came with unlimited storage
with no processing delay.
You nod.
You hum thoughtfully.
You do not charge.
You go home and stare at the wall
like a phone that’s overheated
and it's shutting itself down.
You are everyone’s emotional USB.
No one ejects you safely.
They assume you are calm
because your voice is calm.
They assume you are fine
because you are useful.
They do not see you later,
googling “burnout symptoms”
for the fifth time
like it might say something new.
They do not see the toast and soup dinners.
The cancelled plans.
The way silence sometimes feels
too loud.
They just say,
“Wow, you must hear some things,”
and then immediately
tell you more.
About the Creator
Teena Quinn
Counsellor, writer, MS & Graves warrior. I write about healing, grief and hope. Lover of animals, my son and grandson, and grateful to my best friend for surviving my antics and holding me up, when I trip, which is often



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