When the Road Became My Teacher

M Mehran

Wandering began for me not as a choice, but as an accident. One train missed, one connection lost, and suddenly I was stranded in a town whose name I couldn’t pronounce. I could have panicked. Instead, I walked. That decision changed everything.

The streets were narrow, cobblestones uneven under my shoes. A light rain had fallen, and the air smelled of wet earth and fresh bread drifting from a nearby bakery. I had no map, no plan—just time. For the first time in years, time belonged to me and me alone.

As I wandered, I realized how much of life I had been rushing through. Normally, I would count the minutes, check my phone, calculate the fastest route. That day, I simply followed where the streets curved. Every turn revealed a surprise: an old fountain cracked with moss, a child chasing pigeons, an artist painting doorways in colors too bright for the gray sky.

I stayed in that town until evening. No grand attractions, no famous monuments. Just life, ordinary and extraordinary, unfolding quietly. It was then I understood: to wander is to discover the beauty that doesn’t make it into guidebooks.

From that day forward, I gave myself permission to get lost. And the more I wandered, the more the world opened itself.

In the mountains, wandering meant surrendering to silence. The trail twisted endlessly upward, each step a negotiation between body and breath. When I finally stopped, lungs burning, I looked out over valleys spilling into infinity. The wind howled through the peaks like a hymn. There was no audience, no applause—only the raw reminder that nature is both vast and intimate, welcoming and humbling.

By the sea, wandering meant listening. Waves thundered and retreated, a rhythm older than language. I walked barefoot along the shore until the horizon swallowed the sun. My footprints disappeared with each tide, teaching me that nothing we leave behind is permanent. And yet, the act of walking still mattered.

In villages, wandering meant connection. An old man selling tea on a street corner told me his entire life story with just a smile and a handful of gestures. Children ran up to ask me where I came from, their laughter echoing long after they disappeared into alleyways. I learned that kindness travels farther than any currency, and that sometimes, being a stranger is the best way to feel at home.

But wandering also taught me discomfort. Nights when the only shelter was a bench under flickering streetlights. Days when blisters throbbed with every step. Mornings when hunger gnawed louder than birdsong. Yet, those moments shaped me as much as the beauty did. Wander long enough, and you realize: the road is not here to serve you comfort. It is here to teach you resilience.

One memory lingers most. I was in a remote town, walking aimlessly when I stumbled upon a festival. Lanterns floated into the sky, hundreds of tiny stars joining the night. Strangers handed me food, invited me into their dance. I didn’t know their songs, but I clapped and moved anyway. That night, surrounded by people I couldn’t understand yet somehow belonged to, I felt the essence of wandering: to lose yourself and find yourself at the same time.

When I eventually returned home, friends asked me what I had gained. Souvenirs? Photos? Checkmarks on a list? I shook my head. Wandering had given me something subtler: a new way of seeing. Now, even in my own city, I wander. I take detours. I pause to notice the graffiti on a wall, the way shadows bend at dusk, the unexpected smile of a stranger. The world hasn’t changed—but I have.

Because wandering isn’t about distance. It’s about presence. It’s about stepping off the straight line of expectations and allowing yourself to zigzag, to drift, to follow the pull of curiosity. It is less about where your feet go and more about what your heart discovers.

And so, whenever life feels heavy or predictable, I lace up my shoes and walk—not toward a destination, but toward possibility. The road is still my teacher, reminding me that every step is both a question and an answer.

To wander is to live twice: once in the body, and once in the soul.