Stream of Consciousness
An ode to imposter syndrome
An ode to imposter syndrome Self-worth and self-belief are the two sides of the same coin. We all have seeds of self-doubt planted within us, either from our inner limiting beliefs, trauma or negative projections of other people’s opinions. It is hilarious how we place our self-esteem in the hands of others with ease and then find ourselves in the labyrinth of negative perceptions of ourselves or dwindling confidence in our abilities. Life is a paradox, to heal you must be hurt, amid the most massive of pain and breakdown lies the most eminent breakthrough you would ever receive. If you want confidence and faith in your abilities, you must swim through the turbulent ocean of self-doubt and insecurity.
By Hridya Sharma2 years ago in Confessions
Letting Go: How Detachment Can Help You Heal Toxic Relationships
Letting Go: How Detachment Can Help You Heal Toxic Relationships Many individuals in the self-help and dating advice community often emphasize the importance of independence, but there is a disconnect between societal norms and scientific evidence. Building strong emotional connections with others has been shown to result in increased levels of happiness, success, and overall well-being in individuals' lives. Some individuals offer self-help and dating advice and believe in the importance of being independent. Building strong emotional connections with others has been shown to increase happiness, effectiveness, and overall stability in life.
By Hridya Sharma2 years ago in Confessions
Secure Attachment Style - FINALLY!!!. Content Warning.
Note: I use the word relationship throughout this article. In the way I am using this word, take it to mean any kind of interaction with other people whether as co-workers, friends, family, acquaintances, or professionals.
By The Schizophrenic Mom2 years ago in Confessions
Bryce’s Journey
**Interviewer:** Tell me all about Bryce. **Mom:** Bryce was born and adopted by us. He was a healthy baby boy, but at three-and-a-half weeks, he suffered from severe shaken baby syndrome. This traumatic event led to a brain injury and several broken bones. He was on life support for two months. We were in the midst of our foster parent training when we encountered his case. On the day we were to sign our license, our caseworker presented us with a referral. Although she reassured us the child was in care, the referral contained complex jargon. As we read through it, we realized it was Bryce’s case. The details of his injuries were shocking and heartbreaking.
By cathynli namuli2 years ago in Confessions
The Science and Benefits of Self-Talk: A Deep Dive
As your morning alarm blares, you grumble, “Why did I set it so early?” Brushing your teeth, you glance at the mirror and think, “I need a haircut… or do I?” As you rush out the door, you reach for your keys only to realize they’re missing. Frustrated, you exclaim, “I can’t do anything right!” just as you spot your neighbor watching. It’s a moment that could feel embarrassing since some stigmatize talking to oneself as a sign of mental instability. However, decades of psychological research reveal that self-talk is not only normal but a common practice.
By cathynli namuli2 years ago in Confessions
The Subtitles Phenomenon
I often find myself engrossed in movies and TV shows, whether I’m on the train, relaxing at home, at the cinema, working out, doing dishes, or even in the bath. Regardless of where I am, there’s one thing I keep doing: turning on the subtitles. I thought I was alone in this, but after polling our YouTube audience, it turns out that 57% of people feel they can’t fully understand the dialogue in what they watch without subtitles. This trend seems to have escalated in recent years, which piqued my curiosity about the cause.
By cathynli namuli2 years ago in Confessions
The Quest for being right
You really have no idea how desperate most people are to be right all the time. It’s quite amazing!, they’ll go as far as denying reality itself if that means they can be right in the end. This yearning for validation can shape a person’s judgment and fundamentally influence their overall worldview. Deep down, the need to be right comes from a drive for certainty and self-assurance. Being right is comforting, reassuring, and provides an internal balance. Humans always seek for validation from other humans, this builds up their assurance, ego and happiness, it makes up for the flaws they might have while satisfying their biases.
By real Jema2 years ago in Confessions
Understanding Women
NOTE!!! Understanding women and attracting their attention is a topic that has intrigued men for centuries. However, it's essential to recognize that women, like men, are individuals with unique personalities, preferences, and desires. Therefore, understanding women isn't about deciphering some universal code but rather about developing empathy, communication skills, and emotional intelligence. The "secret" to getting a woman's attention lies in building genuine connections, being respectful, and showing interest in who she is as a person. This approach not only leads to more meaningful relationships but also fosters mutual respect and understanding.
By Muhammad Sani Sani2 years ago in Confessions
Between Heaven and Earth
The sun dipped low on the horizon, painting the sky in shades of orange and pink. The small village nestled between rolling hills seemed to hold its breath as the day slowly gave way to night. In this tranquil place, where time seemed to move slower, lived an old man named Elias, known to everyone as the village storyteller.
By zenGaze2 years ago in Confessions
