3 things to do in divorce

Under normal circumstances, if two people quarrel over some trifles, stumbling, personality differences, etc., the marriage still needs to be maintained, because since the choice of marriage, it is necessary to fulfill the responsibilities and obligations of marriage. However, if the relationship between husband and wife is to the point of mutual hatred, one of them is selfish, greedy and vicious, capricious, paranoid and extreme in character, and has domestic violence, drug addiction, gambling, alcoholism, cheating addiction and other bad habits in action, and never because of their own lack of reflection and repentance, but will regret, complain, malicious force, blame all their misfortune on others. This time must be decisive choice, do not for material, face, children, etc. to maintain this will be broken home. If a couple has to divorce, must do the following three things:

First, no entanglement. "Get married as late as possible, get divorced as early as possible", when you have the idea of divorce for a long time, in fact, the marriage is a hell to maintain, for both sides is torture. "Tasteless food is a pity to throw away" is a painful internal struggle, if you make a decision, to act quickly, don't wander around, muddle. Life is too short, the heart is too fragile, can not withstand the long time of injury and torture. If the other person gives up on you, you will only let the other person more and more hate you, find that the situation is not right, and the other person has broken the heart, the best way is to go quickly. The faster you go, the more decisive, the more active, the more you save face, the more shock and attraction caused by the other side.

Two, don't complain. After divorce, don't go around denigrating your spouse. There are many reasons your spouse left you. Whatever the reason, you should never go around denigrating your spouse after a divorce. One, was your own love, now denigrate him, is to denigrate your original choice; Second, denigrating others will first affect their own image, people will think, like you behind the gossip, divorced is really not wronged. The stupidest thing divorced parents can do is to take their child for themselves and make him hate someone with them. Hostility between parents will not only make children fear and upset, produce psychological burden, but also set a negative example to him, do harm to the family. Don't let children despair of love, more conducive to the growth of children.

Three, don't give up. A lot of people are so anxious about new love after a divorce that they miss out on the people who really love you. In fact, there is no need to be so careful, although once suffered misfortune, but the pursuit of marital happiness is a matter of course, don't because of a blow, make yourself become the corner of love forgotten. After divorce, you must not think that there is no true love in the world, it is all profit and cheating, which goes from one extreme to another. Things change, no one knows what will happen in the future, assuming that if you fail in love and marriage, must reflect on their own right and wrong, start a new life, must not lose faith in love.

In marriage, the man and the woman are the protagonists of the marriage, but in divorce? The damage has gone far beyond these two. Don't talk about divorce unless you absolutely have to, but when you do, do these three things and you'll have a fresh start. If we don't get divorced, how do we have a chance to date someone better suited to us? Who's to say that the person you meet tomorrow won't be the one for you? Who doesn't find the other half of their life after breaking up? As long as you are self-reliant, love life, live beautiful, live wonderful, you will be in the crowd by him a look.