grandparents
Becoming a grandparent makes getting older something to look forward to - all the fun of parenting, without the hassle.
What Services Do Senior Centers Provide? A Helpful Guide for Older Adults and Families
At one point during their lives, the majority of families come to a silent conclusion, that support is more than independence. It may be that you are an older adult seeking some interaction or a relative of there love one in need of care, either way, the subject of senior centers is likely to enter the discussion and at times, without people even knowing what their purpose is.
By Laura Parton17 days ago in Families
When We Lost Our Grandchildren
I'll never forget the day Emma stopped answering our calls. My wife Florence and I had just returned from our usual Tuesday morning coffee when I noticed three missed calls from our son, James. "Dad, I need to talk to you," his voicemail said. His voice sounded hollow, defeated. "Emma and I are done. She's asked me to move out."
By Jess Knauf19 days ago in Families
Family Ties
Family Ties How Everyday Moments and Unseen Bonds Shape Who We Are Family ties are the quiet threads that hold our lives together long before we realize how much we rely on them. They form in ordinary moments—shared meals, inside jokes, and disagreements that end in forgiveness. Yet, they carry extraordinary strength. When life feels uncertain, those ties often become the anchor that steadies us.
By Mahmoud Ahmed 19 days ago in Families
The Beggar’s Curse
The Beggar’s Curse Uncle Chaman was known in his neighborhood as the most miserly man around. Whenever a guest visited his house, after the usual formal greetings, he would start complaining about every little thing: “You won’t want tea, right? That’s harmful. Well, the sherbet is slightly warm; will that do? The cake and biscuit shop is closed right now; what can I do? The samosa seller is just heating the oil; it will take some time. How long do you plan to sit here?” And so on.
By Sudais Zakwan19 days ago in Families
Dementia Red Flags That Matter and What to Do When You Notice Them
The last moment that is often the most crucial one is that one notices that something is wrong and makes a decision. Dementia does not present itself in a loud voice. It creeps in under the carpet pretending to be stress or getting old or even bad week. By the time most families seek assistance, the symptoms have been years old. The beginning at the end approach implies that the sooner the action is taken the more chances there are to save the independence, to make the lives better and to afford the families time to make their plans without panic and hesitation.
By Laura Parton22 days ago in Families
The Banyan Tree
It’s always a “must see” place to visit in our family on my maternal mothers side. When making our way into Haleiwa for our shaved ice and day at the beach. Watching the tourists enjoy the sun and waves. While reflecting and thinking to myself. Am I now considered a “tourist” now? Since I was uprooted at the age of 5, and planted into a small dinky little town that on I5 you pass in the blink of an eye. Then I bring myself back to the banyan tree that my great grandfather planted. I remind myself that my roots are forever solidified in the red volcanic dirt that stains anything and everything it touches. I reflect and remember all my family members who hold this location and tree, as a reminder of where are roots are planted. And I can’t help but wonder, was this my great grandfathers purpose? A place where his family can come back and be reminded of where we are from? And who we are? And no matter where we go? Home is rooted in the hearts and memories that we create. I find myself yearning to learn more about each individual and the lives they lived and the struggles and successes in every day life. As I navigate my own life. Do we have things in common more than a bloodline. Do we think the same? Do we move the same? Do we love the same? Amazing how one act by one person with purpose/intention or without. Can inspire an individual generations later. To dig deeper, question more, appreciate more. Growing up as a child. I heard stories, looked at pictures. Imagined myself in a time in which we may say is much simpler than today. Slower pace, less chaos, black and white less grey. A time that felt more protected and safe in its own way. As a middle age woman. I often find myself reflecting on who I am? Do I carry any of the same traits and thoughts as my great grandparents? The same will and resilience in life’s short comings or maybe even my own? If we could be in each others presence. What would our conversations be like? Would they value me as I value their memory and stories? Would they be proud of who I am? Since I can remember I always had a close relationship with my grandma. She is the woman whom I hold dearest to my heart. A strong woman, who took such great care of her family immediate and extended. Being the glue that held everyone together. So I always understood why she was highly regarded and respected. I can say I took a lot of her traits and teachings, she helped mold me into who I am today. When she passed away when I was 15, it felt as if my entire world and safety net disappeared and took one of the biggest parts of me that I can never get back. Her absence set the tone for many infortunate events in my life. I recently went back to Hawaii with my younger sister. Just like we used to as kids for the summer. We visited the cemetery, all the family time allowed, our favorite food spots. And of course the banyan tree. The feeling is overwhelming in a good sense. To stand in the same spot as my great grandfather did when he planted it. You almost feel his presence around and it brings a smile to my face and a warming in my heart. This is where I am rooted. This is where my story began. So thank you great grandpa Miyoshi Ideguchi, for inspiring your great grand daughter to dig a little deeper into the roots that you have planted.
By Deana Cabison22 days ago in Families
The Foolish Wife
The Foolish Wife A farmer knew that his wife was not very intelligent, so he believed that arguing with her was useless. A poor farmer lived in a village. He worked in his fields all day and earned just enough to manage two meals a day. He himself was simple and honest, but the wife he had married was extremely foolish. Their marriage was still new. One morning, before leaving for the fields, the farmer said to his wife, “I will be plowing all day and will be very tired and hungry. Please cook a good meal for me by the time I return, and also bring a glass of vinegar that I bought last year.”
By Sudais Zakwan23 days ago in Families
How to Know When a Person with Dementia Is Nearing the End of Their Life
Watching someone you love slip away through dementia is heartbreaking. It's that slow fade where their spark dims, and suddenly you're wondering if the end is close. One of the toughest parts is spotting the signs death is near dementia – those quiet signals that the body is shutting down. I've been there with my own family, holding hands as the room grew still, and it helps to know what to expect. This isn't about giving up; it's about being ready to comfort them through those final days.
By Shelia Bailey24 days ago in Families
Blue Room 🛏️
Loneliness has never been about being alone. I have felt it in crowds, in homes full of family, in rooms buzzing with voices. It is not the silence of solitude I know—it is something older, deeper, stitched into my chest. It is a weight in my stomach, a tightness around my heart, a companion that clings when I try to laugh or speak or reach for someone. It has been with me since I was a child, a shadow from the very beginning.
By Saiydaa Hayes26 days ago in Families
Why Are Teachers Leaving Education?
As someone who is new to teaching, I will not sit here and pretend to fully understand everything veteran teachers have endured over the years. I do not yet have decades of experience to draw from. However, I can speak honestly about what I have observed in my year and a half in the classroom, and what I have learned in that short time is both eye opening and concerning. Teaching today is no longer just about teaching content. It has evolved into a profession that often requires educators to act as the judge, the juror, and the executioner, so to speak, all while being expected to maintain patience, professionalism, and compassion at every turn.
By Kimberly Nightengale27 days ago in Families
Filial Piety: Appreciating the Cycle of Asian Justice
Filial Piety is the central part of a Confucian value system concerned with the need to produce beneficial patterns from children who are expected to care for their parents. According to Confucius, a variety of virtues are needed to maintain a strong society: filial piety, righteousness, love, loyalty, sincerity, justice, tranquility, moderation, and harmony.
By SAMURAI SAM AND WILD DRAGONS27 days ago in Families
Men who eat nuts tend to have better quality sperm
Peak Potency: How a Daily Nut Habit Elevates Male Sperm Quality Male fertility rates have dropped in recent years. Many couples struggle to conceive, and men often overlook their role in this challenge. Your diet can make a big difference here. Nuts stand out as a simple fix. They pack antioxidants and healthy fats that support better sperm quality. Think of them as fuel for your reproductive system. Studies show men who eat nuts regularly see real gains in sperm health. If you're planning a family or just want peak vitality, adding nuts could be your smart move.
By Story silver book 27 days ago in Families
