I am sitting silently by the window, watching the sunset, feeling the leaves fall, and listening to the songs of sundown that the wind is whistling. My nerves have calmed since them gunshots earlier and my hand has finally stopped shakin. I never knew I would be the one to take care of such things. But life has plans for all of us. Thankfully the ringing in my ear has been gone for a couple of hours, and I am finally feeling more at peace. I was well aware that farm life is not easy and sacrifices must be made, but these feelings? Well I don’t remember signing up for those too. That done feels like too much, and life out here already ain’t easy.
“Remember to bring the hay bales into the barn Before it gets too dark”, Nana hollered from the kitchen “ I meant to tell ya earlier but then I almost burned the chili!” . Sweet Nana hasn’t been herself since, either.
In a slow moving, almost sleeplike state, I mosie on over to the barn, wishing I was numb, but still feeling deeply sad and not wanting to face the empty stall. It seems so big now, so empty. I never thought i could feel so lonesome after Pop pos went, and now, also Sunny.
Molly seems anxious, like she is still waiting for Sunny to come around from his dusk Galavant. My heart sinks to my knees when I see her, and I don’t have the heart to tell her that Sunny ain’t coming home tonight, nor ever, And that I’m sorry for her loss and I could not even begin to imagine what kinda pain a being so large and with such a pure heart can feel while grieving. The pain that I felt was truly deep and just like that, Nana Myself and now Molly, well we have all loved and lost, and well, now we only have each other.
I do wish I could somehow tell her all of this, but I don’t speak horse, so I give her an apple instead, apples are her favorite thing in the world. I’ve always wondered what it would feel like to eat apples like they were candy, with huge teeth, powerful jaws, and the juice of the apple sliding down my long strong horse throat. The stem but a tickle. To be so naturally complete and tremendously powerful. I wonder if they even knew how beautiful they are. Judging by their attitude at times I’m sure they know it very well.
The hay bales have been coming undone because the new packer lost a string and a couple of bearings. I tried fixing it myself but, as usual, had no luck. Bruce is coming over tomorrow to fix it and we can hardly wait. Bruce has always been the kind and courteous neighbor that we can always count on. After the accident, having been left with only one arm taught me to always appreciate every day that God has granted me upon this earth. But it did make the simplest repairs immensely difficult and heartbreakingly impossible. I was still wishing I could be the fix-it-all, ever-jolly strong one of the house but as much as I tried I could never even come close to filling pop pops shoes. Boy do we miss him. As I spread the hay around for sweet Molly my eyes fill up with tears thinking about Pop pop.
Suddenly, I hear a rustling up around the roof of the barn. “ Who’s there?” I yell, knowing it is probably the the field mice who for some reason love to make their nests up there.
Flap flap flap flap flap it goes, and I fall to the floor, stunned.
It spreads its majestic wings open and it flies swiftly back into the night. In that moment, I can see the freedom in its wings. It has to be the brightest, whitest, most majestic barn owl I’ve ever seen. And in this moment, I know Pop pop is with me, and his kind words sounding clearly once again, in my heart “Do not try to be someone else Chap, You know that will never do! Greet every day with a smile, and be your very best own you!”
Pop pop Always with his singing voice and his Rhyming little sayings. Most special soul this earth has seen, Pop pop, so kind and gentle. He will always live in my heart. Boy do I miss him. For now I’m just gonna keep on keepin on and take care of Nana and the barn. That was pop pop’s favorite critter. The white owl. He always said they bring good messages from the creator himself. Pop pop I feel you with me, I feel it in my soul. Everything will be alright, and tomorrow? Well, hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.
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