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Sex Fears We All Have
As Franklin D. Roosevelt once said, "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself," and that goes for sexual fears as well. Throughout life, as humans, we are constantly being bombarded by insecurities that make us feel less than. One of the most dreaded fears a person can experience is when it comes to sex. These sexual fears can make people feel defeated and inadequate. Sexual fears aren't always visible, and you may not even know you have them sometimes. They can take cover deep down inside your subconscious mind and as a result, you might find yourself avoiding sex altogether. You might be a person who has never had sex or has had a lot of sex or somewhere in the middle. If these sexual fears are getting in the way of you having a well balanced sex life then that's a major problem.
By George Gott9 years ago in Filthy
Warning Signs You're in a Toxic Relationship. Top Story - September 2016.
Fall in love, get married, have a couple of kids, live happily ever after. That's the formula, right? Relationships play a huge role in the makeup of our lives and sometimes, we become so caught up in what we're 'supposed' to be doing, that we veer from what we actually want. We start accepting less than we should, because we've become compliant and comfortable. But the warning signs you're in a toxic relationship are there. Right in front of our faces, the signs are there. Sometimes you just need to take a step back and ask yourself "What am I doing? Why am I still in this? Will this make me happy?". If you've started to feel unease in your own relationship, it's probably hurting you more than it's helping you. Be on the look out for these signs while you evaluate what the next step to take is.
By Emily McCay9 years ago in Filthy
How to Orgasm from Anal Sex
Welcome to the world of anal sex! If you're reading this, you're probably one of two types of people. One, you've never tried anal (because HELLO, EXIT NOT ENTRANCE) but you can't help but be curious about it. Or two, you partake in anal sex with your partner, but you can't seem to reach your climax. Fear not my friends, you are not alone! Learning how to orgasm from anal sex is about 70% mental and 30% physical. Master one and the other will follow.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Male Menopause May Be Psychological
Men's sexual aging is far more mysterious than women's. When women look down the sexual road, at least one thing is clear: menopause. They know that if their sexual instincts, responses, and appetites start to go a bit haywire anytime from their late thirties on, there's probably a biochemical explanation. However there's also light at the end of tunnel. Men don’t have that same assurance. If their sexual responses turn less than trustworthy from around 40-years-old on, the possible causes seem endless. Maybe it's the toll of endless job stress, or a latent sexual identity crisis, or some disastrous hormonal disorder. Maybe it's male menopause, if such a thing exists. Like women, men's hormones do fluctuate with age. Despite the testicle's ability to resist aging, a majority of men experience a decrease in testosterone after age forty. Which also begs the question - How do I deal with sexual anxiety?
By David McCleary9 years ago in Filthy
Signs It's Time to Break Up
We have all been there at one time or another, either as the "breaker upper" or the “broken up with”, regardless both positions can be difficult. For some couples, a break up may come from out of nowhere, leaving one of you distraught and confused, or perhaps the breakup will be a mutual agreement and the best decision for both of you. Looking out for warning signs is a good way to predict if you and your lover might be on the outs. You can use these signs as motivation to communicate and work through your issues or as an awakening that will finally push you to move on. Whatever choice you make, remember life is too short to spend it fighting and unhappy and even the worst relationships leave you with something; a new found outlook on life, love and most importantly yourself.
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
What Makes A Woman Good in Bed?
Some time ago, a man looked at a woman and wondered, "Does she or doesn't she?" (go to bed). Since the sexual revolution, the question more often has been, "Is she or isn't she?" (good in bed). But what does that really mean and how do we define the term "good in bed" (G.I.B.)? In interviews with film stars and athletes, pimps and hookers, author Wendy Leigh has tried to discover whether there is an answer to this question.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Ways to Woo Your Woman
A wise person once said that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. This is false and the person who said that was clearly just hungry. The way to a man’s heart is through his penis. This holds true no matter what the instance. If a man knows the secret ingredient to successfully getting laid, he will do it. In fact, he will probably do almost anything if the end result is an orgasm, and preferably one that is not self-induced. Men are very goal oriented, but they only like it when, to achieve that goal, they can get there via a straight line. When the instructions get too complicated, they lose focus and get frustrated. This becomes a problem when dealing with the opposite sex. To get a man going, all you have to do is show him a naked woman or to insinuate the possibility of having sex. Women do not work this way. At all.
By Bea Norton9 years ago in Filthy
Tips to Make Semen Taste Better
Spit or swallow? When it comes to giving head, many women are faced with the problem of what to do once the man ejaculates. Do they spit it into a tissue? Or do they just swallow it before reaching for their water bottle on the nightstand? Either way, they are left with that taste in their mouth and the desire to brush their teeth. If women know that their men like oral sex, then it’s a good idea for men to make sure that the woman enjoys it too. One of the most common complaints is that the woman doesn’t like the taste of semen. What men put into their body is likely to impact on the flavor of their sperm and semen. So with that in mind, it’s time for women to start handing out some fruit salad to their men before they start giving head.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Creative Ways to Turn Your Man On
Let's face it, the plain-Jane domestician is no longer the woman a man craves. The demure housekeeper of yesteryear doesn't inflame a man any longer. Nevermore is the quickest way to a man's heart through his stomach; the no-nonsense Ms. knows it's through his ribs and pericardium.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Weird Ways to be More Sexually Aggressive
The new era of the aggressive woman is here. Women have more power in everything and are expected to assert themselves in every area: jobs, politics, sports, and, happily, sex. You don’t have to wait around for the man to make the first move anymore. More and more men are turned on by women who are sure, confident, and sexually demonstrative. Ah, but do you know which buttons to press? Try any combination of the following for fast, fast results.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Things Women Think While Giving Head
The art of fellatio can be a daunting, redundant, and sometimes difficult job, a job not for the easily gagged or weakened jaw. Combine that with a woman’s inability to relax and you have quite a humorous adventure on your hands. While giving head doesn’t seem to be rocket science, even the most seasoned blowers admit to having a doubt or two when face to face with the one-eyed monster.
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
