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Literacy, numeracy and porn -
Our educators are doing a courageous job arming our children with what they need to be safe and sane in this modern world. On top of the fundamentals of English, maths, science and history, curriculums are now providing digital literacy and emotional literacy skills. These latter initiatives aim to strengthen positive, equal, and respectful relationships among women and men and are included in the National Plan to End Violence against Women and Children 2022–2032 (The National Plan) [1]. However, there is one glaring omission from this range of new literacy programs. What about porn literacy?
By Belinda Tobin4 years ago in Filthy
Who's that Girl?
If you surf the internet long enough, then chances are you'll come across a meme. According to Google the definition of a meme is an image, video, piece of text which is typically humorous in nature. It is often copied and spread rapidly by internet users, often with slight variations.
By Roy Jones4 years ago in Filthy
Percipience of Venereal Pleasure in this Age of ‘Consent’
The way societies deal with sex tells us a lot about themselves. Every place and generation has its own battleground when it comes to sexuality. They address issues such as who can have sex with whom, when, and under what conditions, from anti-miscegenation laws to criminal prohibitions of same-sex intimacy. There is currently considerable discussion of what kind of sexual activity is appropriate, focusing on the issue of individual choice and autonomy. Consent seems to be the defining characteristic of our times.
By Siddharth 5 years ago in Filthy
River Road Bridge
River Road Bridge Boys being boys His name was Bill. At least that’s what he said his name was. He said he was from Chicago. It was not unusual to hear someone say they were from Chicago, at least not in my small southwestern Wisconsin town. Heck, half the people who lived in Chicago had visited that town in the short time I had been alive. At least it seemed that way. My hometown was what some called a “tourist trap.” That he was from Chicago is not the most unique thing about Bill. Bill was a Black man. He was the first black man I ever talked to.
By David Zinke aka ZINK5 years ago in Filthy
Sex & BDSM After Trauma
Long after debris has been cleared and casualties have been counted, there's still the matter of emotional fallout to deal with for years to come in any traumatic incident. Whether on a global or individual scale, healing will always be needed.
By S. L. R.5 years ago in Filthy
What is Intimacy and Sexology?. Top Story - April 2021.
Throughout my life I heard the word "intimacy" and I always thought about physical touch or kissing. Maybe it was due to all of the romance movies I watched or the Stevie Wonder songs that talked about love like an all encompassing, touchy-feely, I would move mountains and stars for you, kind of way. Truth be told like most women I've probably seen one too many romantic comedies that feed us all unrealistic fluffy expectations of love. However, sex is no different. The majority (whether wanting to admit it or not) have watched enough porn to know how unrealistic the porn narratives we were first exposed to are. They are far different than the real act of sex in way more ways than one. Most of us aren't knocking boots with a hot plumber coming to unclog your sink with his "big plunger".
By Nori 5 years ago in Filthy
To my female Sex workers
Dear Female Sex workers, Your confidence is my coffee on a really early morning, it boosts my days so I can thrive in this “man made world”. My following/followers count is low on twitter however a few years ago you all inspired me to use it to support your content. I am absolutely baffled by the lack of true support some of you receive. Your energy, time, money, and creativity in creating content so personal and yet judged so negatively is simply perplexing if you ask me. If I had any guess I would say it has something to do with control maybe? I see my girls on Onlyfans making moves in a career so taboo while simultaneously building themselves an entire empire. I can’t imagine how that must feel to the male ego who exploited womens bodies for their own selfish needs. Why is that the people complaining the most about these women are broke guys who probably get off to free links on pornhub?! Are you just upset that you can’t afford their content so you have to insult them? I remember a few years ago when your community was being attacked and people were threatening to report girls with Snapchat Premiums to the IRS. Facebook was flooded with idiotic memes, while most of you struggled to make sure all you worked for wouldn’t come crumbling down. As if life isn’t already hard enough, let's also tell women that they aren’t allowed to make a career from what is hers. Better yet, lets allow her to have a job in the sex industry but we will have men completely call the shots. The time and energy spent creating content for people who would rather shame you than to admit that they watch it. I value your energy to push through society that beats you down for trying to make it. Your drive for success has encouraged me to put myself out there in my own ways. I’m so proud of those of you who have used your platform to find your passions in life. Some of you have become owners of your own online boutiques, some of you have paid your way through college free of any loans! I am so proud of you for embracing your assets and making your dreams come true. Success is only for those who truly put in the work and god damn have you all truly put in the effort for success. My admiration for you continues to grow as I watch you all use your voices in the fight to keep your livelihood protected. I refuse to sit on the sidelines as my sisters are attacked for simply thriving. I hope you will not give up on yourself in this challenging time. I dream of a future where you all can safely create content without fears of judgment or even worse..assaults. Just as there are genres for many things there are countless services you all offer and all are valid forms of work. Your work and everything that comes with it should be protected and cherished as any other job would be. As time changes and the world progresses I hope that we will live in a time where things like this will no longer matter. The world deserves to embrace our strong diverse, female Doms in this world, you can learn so much from them! Please keep creating your content that speaks volumes to some of us who see it as more than just a moment of pleasure. Your words and energy sit with me throughout my days and I find strength in seeing it shine. I have found confidence in my flaws by seeing real women bare their own out on live chats. Your selection of sizes and colors shows the world that beauty and what's attractive isn’t the same for everyone. You are valuable to this world and I truly hope you will always remember that.
By AbbieDrew5 years ago in Filthy
Why I Design Websites for Sex Workers
When I was in coding school, my career coach took me aside and told me that the idea I had for my final project was great but that I probably shouldn't do it. The reason why he didn't recommend that I proceed with my idea for my final was that I had wanted to build a Patron-esque membership site for my then-wife, April Flores, a performer in the adult industry. He thought that having such a website on my portfolio would hinder me from getting jobs after I graduated.
By Milcah Halili5 years ago in Filthy
Self Trained
So I’ve come to the realization that I have no clue what I’m doing. And that’s okay. It’s not like there’s been anyone to teach me along the day. People that work in this industry don’t often have anyone to turn to with their questions and the internet is full of numerous answers. Some are good, most are just confusing and contradictory.
By Alice Bay5 years ago in Filthy
The bad BDSM "gatekeepers"
This post is written out of frustration so if I seem a little short, sassy, snarky or bitchy that is why. I'm taking people to task and yes it is needed.
By Lena Bailey5 years ago in Filthy
NOLA Kink Community Update & The 2020 Agent of Influence Awards
2020 has been like a story right out of the B movie reels and pulp fiction noir. It is my sincere hope that with your assistance, we can end this on one high note after another, but we are going to need your help to do it. This year I will be working with N.O.B.L.E. as a neutral party to award members of our community The Agent of Influence Award. This award is to give recognition to the actions and strivings of people and organizations that made a positive impact on the local and nation kink community and furthering the culture of our community. In bestowing this award to key members of our community, I'd like to announce that this effort will also establish the Noble Petition Fund. The Noble Petition Fund will allow members of good standing to petition the leadership to get assistance with fees associated with attending virtual or in-person events. This award process will encourage more people to take part in the ongoing events and thereby opening up minds, hearts, and experiences that allow them to feel part of the community. There will be more on how you can help and shortly. Let us begin by introducing this award next.
By Joseph Crown5 years ago in Filthy
Own Your Sex Life, Woman (Part 1)
You know what I find interesting? The fact that we promote an array of human rights and freedom to be ourselves, but sex still feels like a super taboo topic in 2020. Well, that may not be the case in some social circles, but as far as I can remember, when it comes to people in my surroundings, the topic of sex ruffles feathers, causes grown people to blush, and exposes a plethora of misinformation.
By Xavia Johnson6 years ago in Filthy