My Open Letter to Sugar Babies

Listen ladies (and some men), we need to have a real talk. Some of this will be blunt, and some will be encouraging. So buckle up!

So first you're valid. You're a person who is thinking out of the box about how to make money. You also want to gain or experience things that you may not be able to on your own. Don't let people discourage you. People will be mean and rude, and that's just how it will be—just power through. If you can politely, and want to explain it to people, they may just not know what being a sugar baby is about.

Process all advice from those who've been doing this a while. That's why I started writing about sugar; new girls don't know where to turn. Not every piece of advice is good. For instance there is a girl that says don't kiss your sugar daddy, and only call when you need something. You don't have to kiss all your sugar daddies, but a quick peck isn't horrible.

Also sugar daddies or mamas don't like feeling like an ATM. So make them feel special. They are basically helping you fund your life. Currently I am without a sugar daddy, so I fund the life I live. Those who do have daddies or mamas have someone who helps the life you want happen.

Don't be a bitch, whether it's to another sugar baby or a sugar daddy (or a mama). It accomplishes nothing, except for you missing out on possibly good people. You also need to remember that people in the sugar community talk. If a girl knows that you were immature, and she talks to a daddy, she may sell you out to him for being horrible or immature. Also if you are a scammer, a sugar daddy will tell other daddies. He will also tell other sugar daddies if you are immature or all around bitchy.

You don't have to be anything other than be a date, companion, friend, or mentee to these guys. Being a cam girl or nude model is not the same thing as being a sugar baby. Also, if the daddy or mama makes you perform oral on them or have sex with them to get paid, they are wanting a prostitute, not a sugar baby. We need to bring back the companion or dating sugar baby life. These guys have lived a full life, let them teach you new things and treat you like a princess.

If you can't be bothered with actually being interested in these guys (or at least pretending) or you are repulsed by the thought of older guys, don't be a sugar baby. These guys aren't stupid, they know when a girl doesn't want to be with them, or is repulsed by them, so they may get tired of that and dismiss you as a baby. I hate hearing babies talk about how annoying the daddies are, how boring they are, or how gross they are. You volunteered for this, and you are being paid for this. Don't get into this if old people are so beneath or repulsive to you.

Don't be afraid of meeting people in this lifestyle. If you are smart and play things safe, you will have no problems with meeting these people. It is fun to meet the legit guys you can have some amazing times with. So try it and see what happens.

If you have any questions, comments, or concerns, I will leave my email at the end of this post so please reach out.

Be smart ladies and gents,

Lena

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