How to develop a personality in life?

Every person is born different and special. Everyone has a unique personality that makes us different from others. This difference determines who we are, how we are and how we behave in a situation. Most of the time, we are aware of and sensitive to the traits that cause us harm. Then we get inferiority complex because of them. But we know that everyone here is unique, we just need to awaken our inner capacity and improve our personality. This is where the process of personality development begins to help.

Personality development makes a person who is lazy and, stuck in discouragement and discouragement, efficient, enthusiastic, happy and motivated by his goal. In the process of personality development, a person learns his characteristics without any resistance and by giving up his boundaries, learns to be happy and does all this with more enthusiasm and vigor.

Everybody in this world is trying to influence each other as soon as we see what is happening around us. In addition, every particle of your energy is expended on influencing other people every day. Your body, your virtues, your intellect, your spirituality are all constantly influencing others, and vice versa, everyone else is influencing you. Thoughts are one-third. In this case, the personality of the person is the most important factor and it is the two-thirds. What we call the attraction of a person's personality comes out and affects us. When family heads fail, they should ask themselves the question, what is the reason why some people run the house well and others can't? This difference depends on the person, his personality is responsible for it.

What is personality? Our personality is what kind of person we are by our behavior, our feelings and thoughts! According to the contemporary English dictionary, 'Personality is the whole nature and character of a person .How does a person behave, what are his feelings and thoughts? And what is his behavior in the given situation? This is largely determined by the state of mind. An outward appearance or a person's language or manners is just a glimpse of your personality. It reflects your true personality. It starts with a clear understanding of nature and how it works. 'Freedom You can't control your mind even for a moment, at most, your mind can't stay still for a moment on a subject. Yet we call ourselves freedom! This is what we should think about. This treasure is called Chitta. Chitta Bhandara holds the culture of our good and bad thoughts together. Its total roundness determines our character. This power can be called meditation. It is also the function of the mind to form ideas and perceptions. Wisdom is the chariot driver. Our senses like ears, skin, eyes, tongue and nose are like horses attached to this body-like chariot. These senses are the windows of a person's personality. The path through which we get knowledge of the subject of the world. Another important activity of the mind related to personality development is that the more control you have over your emotions, the healthier your personality becomes. It is a great tool for self-development of personality by lifting oneself up from the garbage of the mind. This world is just an exercise school. The struggle of the personality with the lower mind is part of development. Making one's own personality effective is a very important thing in the life of every person, be it householder, poor, rich, trader, religious. One part of the subtle body is called the mind, the other the intellect and its ego. All the actions of the mind's intellect and ego are for someone else. The mind, intellect and ego cannot be self-illumined as they are made of subtle heavy matter. Having a real passion for the development of personality is the first step of personality development .Everything happens easily. Struggling is a lesson of personality. This should be kept in mind. Realization should not be the goal, but the goal should be to bring about improvement, to develop personality. Thoughts are the driving force behind your work ethic .This is what drives you .This helps to develop your personality. We all should not pay attention to failure. Failure is natural. That is the beauty of life. The good and the bad have an equal share in shaping the character of a person. And in one's life, sadness teaches us more lessons than happiness, more wisdom. So we are the architects of our own lives.