How to Find A Clarity When You Are Confused

Most people, often in life, feel confused before taking any decision or deriving any conclusion. They cannot easily find clarity. Whether it is the matter of taking a decision related to career or personal life or judging someone, they are perplexed.

This somehow affects their mental peace and well-being. They feel stuck and unsettled. These people also feel less empowered.

In this blog, an attempt is made to help you if you are disoriented. So, When you are confused and seeking clarity, try the following –

Think with a calm mind

Whenever you feel that you are confused and cannot make a decision, think about the matter with a peaceful mind. When there is so much going on in your head, it is obvious that you will not get a clear idea about what you want.

And, most importantly what is good for you. A serene mind is necessary to overcome the state of confusion. Unplug yourself from any kind of distraction. Focus on what do you exactly want. You will get the answer without any bewilderment.

There are a few things you can do to think with a calm mind like take a deep breath and relax yourself for sometime, take bath or a walk. And if you are interested, you can also try meditation.

Another thing that helps me to solve problems is introspection. If you are relaxed a bit after doing the things mentioned above, stand in front of a mirror and talk to yourself.

It's not necessary to stand in front of the mirror, you can also go and sit in a quiet place where no one else is around to disturb you.

Once you are in place, start asking yourself the most general and simple questions and keep why? What? Where? Until you reach the root of the problem. And yes! Don’t overdo it.

Start with who you are? What are you doing here? What do you need to do? Where do you wanna go? Is this all gonna be beneficial to my life, my career, relationships?

Start asking yourself what things are bothering you and why? Once you start this kind of thing you will get some knowledge about your “self”. You will start you notice yourself.

And once you reach the root of the problem and confusions, you will get solutions. And if not, it will help you to calm a bit.

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Avoid overthinking any issue

“Overthinking is the biggest cause of unhappiness”. Undoubtedly, this statement is veracious. The habit of overthinking does no good. It makes you more confused and impairs you from making clear decisions. When you get confused, never get into overthinking.

Take the required step rather than boggling your mind with unnecessary thoughts and creating problems that do not exist in reality.

The habit of overthinking takes away the essence of the main topic and deviates you to completely useless things. Stay away from overthinking and you will always remain happy.

Overthinking and another partner of this habit is procrastination. These are also the most destructive things.

There is a simple rule which you need to follow to free yourself from overthinking. A simple method which is derived from methods of army or military (I don’t care).

So the solution is to tell yourself “Stop” and then again tell yourself “Prioritise and Execute”. If its hard for you to do this, write “Prioritise and Execute” on paper and hang it on a wall.

Then follow what's written on this paper. Priortise all of your tasks of the day and start executing them one by one.

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Take the advice of someone you trust and admire

In our lives, there are always some people who are close to us. We love them, believe them and we also want to be like them. They may include your parents, siblings, or friends. These people are the epitome of something good which attracts and motivates you.

In case when you are confused and in search of clarity, don’t forget to get guidance from these special people in your life. Because they very well understand your feelings and will suggest you the best.

They will always show you the correct path and will take you out of the troubling state of confusion.

Believe in yourself and have a clear conscience

Your conscience is your highest authority. Conscience is the moral sense of right and wrong. It has a deep impact on one’s behavior. So, if you have a clear conscience and you believe in yourself, then nothing can deter you from reaching clarity.

The state of confusion mostly occurs when your self-doubt. So, never raise doubt on your thoughts. You can achieve this only when you have clear conscience.

Then there will be nothing to worry about. The thought of consequences will not bother you, because you will be confident that your action is appropriate. Deep inside you will know that you cannot do anything wrong.