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Surviving Evil
This is my story on abuse I am writing this story because I want abuse to end. I am victim of abuse myself my green light was that I was able to get out and my abuser didn't stop me and I also got the help that I needed from a women's abuse center. I honestly can say it's really not a place that women should be in and if you can get out of that situation get out as soon as possible, I know some women can't leave their abuser because they love them or they are too scared or they have a child or children with the abuser. Women are never heard some people think it's the woman's fault on why she's getting abused, but it's not the abuser takes advantage and manipulates his way for people to think it was her fault why she got abused and usually the abuser isolates, manipulates, tries to control everything, takes advantage of everything the woman does. Abuse is so sickening and it's very wrong but women get abused every day. Most abusers act insecure to cover up the truth, in fact they are always bullies. The one thing they all have in common is that their motive is to have power of their victim this is because they don't feel that they have personal power, regardless of their success. To them communication is a win-lose game. Abuse happens within heterosexual relationships and in the same-sex partnerships, it occurs within all age ranges, ethnic backgrounds, and economic levels. And while women are more victimized, men also experience abuse especially verbal and emotional. The bottom line is that abusive behaviour is never acceptable, whether from a man, woman, teenager, or an older adult. There are many signs of abusive relationship, and a fear your partner is the most telling. If you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around them - constantly watching what you say and do in order to avoid a blow up - chances are your relationship is unhealthy and abusive. Other signs include a partner who belittles you, tries to control you, and feelings of self-loathing, helplessness, and desperation. Physical abuse occurs when physical force is used against you in a way that injures or endangers you. Abusive behavior is a choice despite what people believe, domestic violence and abuse does not take place because of an abuser loses control over their behavior. In fact, abusive behavior and violence is a deliberate choice to gain control. Perpetrators use a variety of tactics to manipulate you and exert their power, including: Dominance, Humiliation, Isolation, Threats, Intimidation, Denial and Blame. Abusers use a cycle in violence and domestic abuse which includes: Abuse, Guilt, "Normal" Behavior, Fantasy and Planning, Set-Ups. Recognizing the warning signs of abuse; It's impossible to know with certainly what goes on behind close doors, but there are some telltale signs of emotional abuse and domestic violence. If you witness these warning signs of abuse in a friend, family member or co-worker take them very seriously. People who are being abused may: 1. Seem afraid or anxious to please their partner, 2. Go along with what he or she says, 3. Check in often with their partner to report where they are and what they are doing, 4. Receive frequent, harassing phone calls from their partner, 5. Talk about their partner's temper, jealously, or possessiveness. Warning signs of physical abuse: have frequent injuries, with the excuse of "accidents", frequently missed work, school or social/special occasions without explanation, dress in clothing designed to hide bruises or scars, abuse can hurt in so many ways.
By May🌸3 years ago in Psyche
Even If You Are Not Ready For The Day It Cant Always Be Night
When Kanye west finally released his Donda album, after constant delays, I thought he was about to drop some fire. Since I enjoyed his last religious album so much I just knew this album would be just as good if not better.
By Blue Dymond3 years ago in Psyche
Are you also worried about your body shape?
In the new episode of the talk show, Yan Yiyanyue said about the topic of body anxiety. When I said this, I really felt a pain in my heart. I think that I really fell for a long time. I've been losing weight for a while, but that's when I started to fall for a long time. It may be that my mental state is not very good, so I often binge eat, and then my living habits and temperament are intermittent, and I often close myself. Because I'm fat, I don't want to go out, and I don't want to meet familiar people. Because they all say the same thing, "Why are you so fat right now." And then I thought they were putting me down as a depraved person. Of course, I may indeed be depraved. I don't want to meet people, I don't want to make new friends, and I have low self-esteem. So I'm more self-sacrificing and fatter. Repeatedly in this cycle.
By nian xi3 years ago in Psyche
The Salida Express
Brysen is a college student that is very well-liked among his peers. He is always that kind ear that his friends can always depend on to vent out their frustrations and emotional support. Brysen doesn’t mind this at first, but after dealing with stress of his own, he didn’t have that type of person to turn to. This will lead to Brysen continuously being stressed after every story told by one of his friends, which also slowly lead him to being depressed. Brysen would never turn his friends away at the risk of hurting their feelings, even at the expense of his own. One day, Brysen got back to his house in a fit of rage over failing one of his exams, and had no way to alleviate the stress that he was feeling. Brysen gets a call from one of his friends, Tony. Reluctantly, Brysen answers the phone.
By Jason Brown3 years ago in Psyche
The Sound of a Dream
Nobody can hear a scream in the vacuum of space, or so they say. Of course “they” say lots of things. They always have and they always will. It’s not that they don’t have good intentions, but how could they possibly know everything? Even if everyone was truly in touch with each other and all the answers were presented wrapped in a bow, the party would still be a bust. And “nobody” is a big word when referencing something as vast as space. Even though we have sent probes deep into its expanse, although we’ve stared through telescopes into the stars and recorded astonishing sights, and though we build massive satellites to receive messages - we just don’t hear. If they tried, without fear of failure and threw all their might and will at the puzzle, they couldn’t hope to understand it. This puzzle was complex, big, ever changing, never ending, and it was beyond our reach. Some things are and we just can’t get all the way there on our own. It’s too far and too overwhelming. For most, it’s just too hard to try.
By Jason Moore3 years ago in Psyche
The midnight hour
At midnight when you have not slept, or you have insomnia, what will you think about it, perhaps sometimes very strange, you go to sleep early into the nest, but thinking about the thought of the eyes open can not sleep. Unfortunately, this time some too many people are not thinking about a little something useful to society.
By James3 years ago in Psyche
Am I Being Abused?
How do you tell if you're being emotionally abused? A lot of people who have never been abused get confused. After all, how does a person not know they are being abused? Well, that's the fun part of emotional and mental abuse and abusive individuals. Generally abusive relationships never start out abusive.
By Hope Martin3 years ago in Psyche
Dark Feelings
Numb to the pain you look to the bright side, engulfed with jealousy when darkness laughs and you can't hide. People try to help while they are part of the cause, but the mind takes over as you forget to pause. Mental Illness is not fun and games, triggers can't be controlled but may be contained. Turn it off so no one can hear, the yelling from loved ones, that's in your ears. Emotions cause problems so throw them away, Let logic and pleasure be your guiding way. Noises of joy and love at your expense don't make you sick but damage your pathway. You think you want what others have, but maybe it's something you believe you will never have.
By The Kind Quill3 years ago in Psyche
All Aboard: Hold on Tight in the Crazy Train for One
The train slid across the tracks and groaned with increasing acceleration. Déjà vu flushes through me and my rapidly pulsating blood keeps time with the motion, faster, faster, faster. I am floating, but grounded, and awaken startled by the bouncing and the screams.
By London4 years ago in Psyche
There is no first-class talent, only first-class efforts
Anna Scherbakova was born in March 2004. At the age of three and a half, she entered the training camp of Russian figure skating famous Yateri Tuthberize to learn skating. She has a stubborn personality since she was young. Although living in the center of the city, but never infatuated with the bustling city style, headlong into the training camp, even the local specialty food did not taste.
By Jane Oxley4 years ago in Psyche
Where the port is, there is hope
This is a small company with only a few hundred people, mainly rely on processing export trade, in the face of the sudden financial storm, seems to be a little caught off guard. For this company some middle level cadres complain, the staff is more people lax, work momentum is not as big as before, many people are ready to go home, as the company's boss, is also anxious, after all, it is their own struggle up the cause, can't give up so easily. So he decided to start from the cadre team, this day he held the whole company cadre meeting.
By Jane Oxley4 years ago in Psyche
It's my story. It's our story, okay?
At that time, I always like to stand on the platform of tall buildings, thinking about what is the meaning of living? At that time, I had just started to work. My working condition was reversed day and night, and my stomach cramps caused by irregular diet made me often doubt my life. It was also for these reasons that my skin was in a particularly bad state at that time. Most of my colleagues were about the same age as me, and this was the most common topic we discussed at that time, because it affected our friends too much. Once, a few years older than me male colleague, all of a sudden the face looks clean A lot, I another colleague asked him, how do you do? He said to go to our local professional dermatology hospital, to prescribe a lot of pills, eat 50 at a time, back to prescribe a lot of medicine, poured on the gauze, to the face. I listen to this reliable ah, after all, it is a big hospital, I looked for a weekend to go once, the results give me open a big bag of medicine, the doctor said, you believe me, eat over. At that time, our unit benefits were very good, with the medical insurance card to buy medicine can also be reimbursed, I told the doctor, you are finished. As a result, this trip was seven times; During that half a year, I would go there almost once a month, sometimes twice. In fact, it was more for psychological comfort. If you say it's improved, you can't say it's not improved at all, it's very little; Even that small improvement is worth the better part of a day's travel. After that half a year, my skin became particularly sensitive, in the season, the skin is particularly red, is too thin cuticle. That's what the salon guy said later. During that period of time, I saw the advertisements of beauty salons on Weibo. At the beginning, I didn't believe them, but looking at the lower price and the attitude of dead horses as live horses, I decided to try my luck. 168 yuan can experience three times, and you don't say, it is really a lot better after finishing, and the skin looks smooth. Beautician also told me a lot of matters needing attention, such as eating less sweets and strong stimulation ah, wash your face with facial milk can get rid of the excess oil on the face ah, I take a small book especially seriously remember, she turned, after washing the face also need to use some water cream what, I said I have skin care ah, but no cream; She said that not ah, we this effect is particularly good cream, we are all in use, a lot of barak barak, I tried to push to take off, but see their posture not buy you walk out the door, can't, can only be used by bai save a nasty, that's for the second time I went to, after that no matter how hairdresser in coaxing me also don't go to her home, too traps; At the time the skin to improve let me with a little social confidence, met a girl at this time, she was a student of medicine, we often go out to dinner, this can't avoid some very delicious, but high oil and high salt of chafing dish barbecue what acne ~ I often repeatedly, she occasionally, but good soon, she told me that she modulation is a medicine, wipe on a day can be good, Boasting, I thought. We were very close during that time, but I didn't want to trust people too easily. We've been together for over a year, and she mentioned it to me a few times, but when I didn't respond, she stopped. Once when we were watching a movie, she kept sending wechat messages on her mobile phone. I was a little jealous and said to her, "Can I send it out after watching the movie?" She quickly explained to me that it was her father. Her father's friend's child is puberty, acne, with a lot of methods or not too good improvement, her father told his friend that his daughter adjusted a medicine, acne effect is particularly good, you try. She gave her father's friend to do some, I also want to try, ordered a box, the effect is surprisingly good, the face in acne is not worried about. At that time, some changes occurred in the work, I was arranged to a work intensity is very dangerous, and often need to stay up late to do things they do not like, at that time I asked myself, really need this job. Perhaps is the impulse may also be these years of planning for a long time, let me have a pen savings in the hand of the situation resolutely and candidly put forward the naked resignation, the family is not very supportive, feel so stable work why do not quit, in this work to retire to take pension is not good? They used all kinds of means to force me to go back, even with the relatives of the family to force me to submit. Now I think of it, I still feel ridiculous. How can anyone always want to change others? When I left my job, I didn't discuss it with my girlfriend at that time, and she had a big quarrel with me. What impresses me most is her sentence "Do you see any young person's life is not two points and one line?" I replied, "What most people do is really right; Note: When I was writing this story, I suddenly remembered a sentence from Teacher Li Juan's "Winter Ranch" : Everyone is willing to follow blindly, as if the safest thing in the world is to let oneself disappear among the majority
By Lirika4 years ago in Psyche