gender roles
A look at the evolution of gender roles, from Leave It to Beaver, paternity leave, female breadwinners and more.
Happy Father's Day Mommy!
It is 2023. The price of everything I can think of has risen exponentially. Joblessness rates are high. People are unable to afford to buy a house. Marriage rates are way down, divorce rates are way up. So many households are headed by a female. These issues are not race or culture specific. As a black woman, I would be remiss to not mention how absent fathers are made to seem more prevalent in the African American community. It, in fact, is not. That, though, is a different discussion for a different time. Stay tuned for that perhaps.
By Latoya Giles 3 years ago in Viva
The Power of Touch
There is no denying that human beings crave physical connection. From the moment we are born, we seek comfort through touch, and as we grow older, touch becomes an integral part of our lives. It’s the first language we learn, and it’s the one that stays with us until the end. Touch can convey so much, from love and affection to empathy and even passion, making it one of the most powerful ways in which we communicate with one another.
By Ethelbert Igbo3 years ago in Viva
Avoiding Common Mistakes That Turns Men Off
Avoiding Common Mistakes That Turns Men Off Enhancing Sexual Pleasure for Men Sexual intimacy plays a vital role in maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship. While pleasure and satisfaction are subjective experiences, it is essential to acknowledge and understand the potential mistakes that can turn off men during sex. In this article, we will explore common mistakes women may unintentionally make during sexual encounters and provide guidance on how to enhance sexual pleasure for men. It is crucial to note that communication, consent, and individual preferences should always be prioritized in any sexual relationship.
By Bridget Dyke3 years ago in Viva
Keeping Your Partner Engaged And In Love(Make Him Never Get Tired Of You)
Maintaining Long-Term Interest: Keeping Your Partner Engaged and in Love In long-term relationships, it's natural for partners to experience ups and downs and go through periods of decreased excitement or fatigue. However, there are strategies you can implement to foster a strong and lasting connection, keeping your partner engaged and in love. This article aims to provide guidance on how to maintain a deep emotional bond, prioritize personal growth, nurture intimacy, and cultivate a healthy balance in your relationship. By actively investing in your partnership and creating a fulfilling and evolving dynamic, you can increase the likelihood of your partner staying consistently interested and committed.
By Bridget Dyke3 years ago in Viva
Maintaining A Healthy Sexual Life In Your Relationship
Maintaining a Healthy Sexual Life in Your Relationship A healthy sexual life is an essential component of a fulfilling and intimate relationship. However, as relationships evolve over time, maintaining a satisfying sexual connection can sometimes become challenging. This article aims to provide practical guidance on how to sustain a healthy sexual life in your relationship. By prioritizing open communication, nurturing emotional intimacy, exploring new experiences, and prioritizing self-care, you can enhance your sexual connection and strengthen your overall bond.
By Bridget Dyke3 years ago in Viva
Signs A Woman will start showing you once she has stopped having feelings for you
Signs A Woman will start showing you once she has stopped having feelings for you She Has Lost Romantic Feelings Relationships can be complex, and sometimes feelings change over time. When it comes to gauging a woman's emotional state in a relationship, it can be challenging to discern whether she has stopped having romantic feelings. However, certain signs may suggest a shift in her emotions. In this article, we will explore ten common indications that a woman may exhibit when she is no longer emotionally invested in a romantic relationship. It is important to remember that these signs may not be universally applicable and individual experiences may vary.
By Bridget Dyke3 years ago in Viva
The Goddess Myth
My nine-year-old thinks I walk on water. In her eyes, I am the epitome of the perfect mother. In contrast, my 16- and 18-year-old each cannot wait to escape what they often perceive to be my totalitarian regime. Balancing out such sharply contrasting views, my 24-year-old admits that, while there have been times that my mothering techniques might be questionable, at best, he can no longer deny that he didn’t make things any easier for either one of us. Today, as an adult who can reflect on the past with less biased views, my first-born child thinks I am a “good enough” mother. Personally, there are days when I have to strongly question my own methods, just as there are days – well, fleeting moments, anyway – where I think I should win the “Best Mom Ever” award. When measured against societal standards for mothers, though, I fall short. Some might even consider me a bad mother. I used to care what the outside world thought of me, and I tried, in vain, to adjust myself to better meet societal expectations. When I did, one of two things would happen: either I would continue to fall short in some (insignificant, in my mind) way, or, more often, I’d finally meet those ridiculous expectations, and then society would change them! Eventually, I had to do some real soul searching, and I had to honestly ask myself whether I was truly “good enough” to be a mother to my children. To this day, I still have moments when I am left questioning my own adequacy at mothering. Often, the only thing I can do is throw my hands up and say, “good enough.” Heck, we may as well just face it, perfection will always remain just out of reach. We mothers must stop reaching for something that we will never be able to grasp; that we were never meant to grasp. In the race to become the mythical perfect mother, we place ourselves in an unfair and burdensome position, where in the end, we are sure to be judged as failures – whether by those around us, or even worse, by ourselves. It is time that mothers unite against unrealistic parenting expectations and say, “No, thanks. I’ll settle for good enough.”
By Melissa Shortt3 years ago in Viva
Man Attacked Hilda Baci For Wearing Bikini; Claims Guinness Book Should Remove Her For Bathing Suit
Wednesday, 7 June 2023 By: TB Obwoge I was posting the morning news links for Nigeria, when scrolling Facebook I saw this man's post. I thought he was initially joking, as he claimed the chef and newest Guinness Book of World Records holder was naked. In the photos you can clearly see she's not nude in any of the photos.
By IwriteMywrongs3 years ago in Viva
THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER SHARE WITH YOUR PARTNER NO MATTER WHAT
things one should never share with their partner no matter what Establishing healthy boundaries is a crucial aspect of any relationship. While open communication and trust are vital, there are certain topics that individuals may choose to keep private from their partners. This essay aims to explore the concept of boundaries in relationships and delve into specific areas where discretion may be necessary. However, it is essential to note that these guidelines are not absolute and depend on the unique dynamics of each relationship.
By Bridget Dyke3 years ago in Viva
THINGS THAT ATTRACT WOMEN TO MEN
Things That Attract Women To Men Attraction is a complex and multifaceted phenomenon that can vary greatly from person to person. While it's important to note that individual preferences and priorities differ, there are certain qualities and traits that are commonly associated with attracting women. Here are some of the factors that often contribute to attraction:
By Bridget Dyke3 years ago in Viva



