Destiny S. Harris

Joined August 2022

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Writing since 11. Investing and Lifting since 14.

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The Quiet Disaster of Never Building Assets
Here's something nobody tells you in your twenties: Earned income is a trap disguised as a solution. You work. You get paid. You spend. You work again. The cycle feels productive. You're making money. You're paying bills. You're getting by.
By Destiny S. Harris18 days ago in Trader
What’s Your Initial Reaction to an Income Loss?
They either freak out and spiral — or they stay calm and get to work. Most people panic. They lose a job, a client pauses, an investment dips, or a revenue stream dries up, and suddenly their nervous system is on fire. Anxiety spikes. Sleep disappears. Decisions get sloppy. Fear starts driving behavior.
By Destiny S. Harris19 days ago in Trader
How Does One Stay Committed?
A woman asked me the other day how I stay in the gym and stay motivated. That question already tells me everything. Because motivation has very little to do with why I’m consistent.
By Destiny S. Harris19 days ago in Motivation
10 Traits of Overweight Gym Goers
I don't know about you all, but when I go to the gym, I notice many of the people there are in shape or somewhat in shape, which makes sense, but for those who want to get in shape, being overweight in this setting could potentially feel overwhelming, intimidating, de-motivating, and flat out uncomfortable.
By Destiny S. Harris19 days ago in Longevity
The Long-Term Cost of Being With Someone Who Neglects Themselves
People love to say relationships are about chemistry. Attraction. Vibes. Connection. Timing. Compatibility. These are great - but also incomplete.
By Destiny S. Harris19 days ago in Longevity
Here's How I Got Started Investing at 14 Years Old
Destiny S. Harris This isn't a story about genius. It's not a story about market timing, secret strategies, or some early obsession with spreadsheets.
By Destiny S. Harris19 days ago in Trader
9 Steps to Make Your First $100K
Most people treat $100K like a mystical milestone. Something reserved for high earners, lucky investors, or people who "started early." That framing is wrong - and it's why most people never get there.
By Destiny S. Harris20 days ago in Trader
10 Ways to Identify If A Relationship Is Good For Your Health
People obsess over chemistry, attraction, shared interests, and labels. Very few people track the one thing that tells the truth immediately: their health.
By Destiny S. Harris20 days ago in Longevity
REITs Or Private Equity?
For a long time, REITs made sense for me. They were simple and gave me a hand in real estate since I haven't wanted to own any yet.
By Destiny S. Harris21 days ago in Trader
I've Been Lifting for 20+ Years and Never Fell Off
It wasn't motivation. It wasn't a perfect program. It was something most people refuse to do. Destiny S. HarrisI started lifting weights at 11.
By Destiny S. Harris21 days ago in Longevity
My Rent Was $300 While Earning Close to Six Figures - What Happened to My Net Worth
In 2016, my rent was $300. I was renting out a room from a family. And I was earning close to six figures at the time. Many people might hear that and wonder: Why?
By Destiny S. Harris21 days ago in Trader
Are Double Workouts Worth It?
Obligations and scheduling directly affect your workout schedule, so double workout days this week to ensure I get all the sessions in.
By Destiny S. Harris22 days ago in Longevity