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It takes a village to raise a family; advice and tips to make the most of yours.
Dear Black Parents: Now More Than Ever, Spend Time With Your Kids.
I’m mentally and emotionally exhausted today. This topic had been swirling around in my psyche for a few weeks but I wasn’t quite sure what I was going to write about or even how. Then, as I watched the verdict being handed down in the Breonna Taylor case yesterday and it was made very obvious that justice would not prevail, it became crystal clear to me what I wanted to say and express.
By Whitney Smart5 years ago in Families
How To Be A Bad Mom
I’m not a very good mom. In fact, most of my friends are better at “momming” than I am. Society defines the concept in ways I don’t match up to. I don’t wear makeup or dresses. I don’t do my hair or nails. I don’t keep an immaculate house. I don’t like shopping or decorating. I’m not a fan of major holidays nor the cheer that comes with them. Play dates are the worst. Sometimes, I don’t even like my kids. But mostly, I don’t like being a “mom.”
By Teshelle Combs5 years ago in Families
Coach to Mom
Its something isn't it? When we look at our kids one day and realize we only have limited time with them left. It might be when they are doing something silly with their siblings. My son LOVED shaving cream and glitter! His Santa beard was the best I ever saw! That Saturday when I handed him his very first ball and white soccer ball, oh his face lit up like a firework!! You would have thought it was Christmas in the Mattei house because he was so excited that he finally had his own soccer ball! I didn't know it then, but I know it now. He was going to love this sport!
By Ashley Mattei5 years ago in Families
I was just thinking
Have you ever had one of those days, when you think I'm a terrible mom? Well today was that day. MY three year old was giving me a lot of trouble because I'm in the process of trying to potty train and it's been very difficult and I got so mad that I yelled at her. Of course she didn't understand why I was upset but I felt so bad that I broke down in tears and was thinking How could i get mad at my child who doesn't understand the concept and she of course noticed and sat on my lap and was trying to console me. I know I'm not the only parent in the world who has gotten mad at their child but i really should be more patient with her and understanding because she's not like other kids, of course foolish me reads these stupid parenting blogs and books about how you child should be a what stage they should be in at their age range. But the reality is that she's not like everyone else and that she's her own unique person, I did just recently figure this out on my own and it took me a little bit to realize it. So I'm telling you that the best way to parent is the way you feel is best because no book or blog can tell you what's to be expected, it's a learning game and in my case it's a little bit more difficult because my husband has autism or is on the spectrum so to speak, it's gone on his whole life but his parents my in-laws refused to notice and get him tested. So as a result it's very difficult to handle at times and I recently have gotten concerned about my daughter maybe having it, but the doctors have said she shows no signs which is a good thing. But however she does have speech problems and maybe other issues that need addressed, Now the books and other crap out there doesn't tell you that or how to handle it. So in my case I have to completely change my whole parenting style, needless to say yes I felt like a horrible person for getting mad at my child with issues and I know I'm not the only one. If you feel that makes you a bad parent it doesn't because we are still human and make mistakes, I just hope for her and my other daughter that I just had 5 month ago turn out to be better versions of my self. So hang in there it'll get better especially with a lot of prayer because lord knows we all need it. Because if i could help any other mom's struggling with this same issue just remember your not alone, because I do feel alone most of the time and it's a terrible feeling. I know that as mom's we need to bring each other up and be supportive not teardown or question. As mothers we can show love and patience in stead of violence and yelling, maybe even encourage dad's to do it to.
By Rachel Corbin5 years ago in Families
Fitness Tips for Heart-Healthy Kids by physiotherapy
Fitness Tips for Heart-Healthy Kids If you are dreading the conversation about diet and exercise with your children, have no fear; you are not alone. Many parents do not know how to approach this subject with their kids. While parents can think of many fun and creative ways to incorporate healthy foods into their child’s diet, fitness routines seem a little trickier.
By Mohit Chawla5 years ago in Families
How Parents Can Help Their Kids With COVID-19 Safety Measures
A question just arrives in our minds today. If you ask us what is this very question. We will say it is all about how parents can help their kids to embrace safety measures in this trying and disturbing moment of humanity.
By Emediong Joseph5 years ago in Families
How to Talk to Your Daughter About Sex Without Shaming Her
I can’t imagine having an open conversation with either of my parents about sex, even now, as an adult. Anytime I’ve tried, with my mother, I’ve been given disgusted looks and felt her scorn. How dare I bring up something that’s to remain private, in an open and vulnerable way?
By Demeter DeLune5 years ago in Families
Motherhood as Meditation
This morning I got up to make a cup of tea before the children woke. I had scarcely filled the kettle before tiny sounds called me back to the bedroom and a sleepy baby held her arms up. I tried to set her down with toys so I could carry on with the morning but she fussed and wailed until I scooped her up again. Motherhood as a different pace than the life I knew previously. We have created different rhythms and embraced a slower pace of life. So I settled my daughter on my hip and finished filling the kettle, including her in my morning tea rhythm. A rhythm is a practice of ebb and flow that evolves to suit each season of your life. I have come to use rhythms at home to create a container for our daily movements. These rhythms arise as I pay attention to our daily life and our needs, using these rhythms to make space for our wants and needs, creating a flow for each day.
By Raine Sillito5 years ago in Families
Parenting for our Youth's Future
Dear Parent, For the kids. We need to bring back our families. The family life that provides stability and security. Now more than ever we have at our fingertips, options to build fundamental resources. I know it is a challenging time for you all these days! As a parent with two grown children I know what it feels like to navigate through work-home balance. However, today's parenting challenges are more than just a work-home balance. There are challenges from society. We want the best for our children. And as the old saying goes "it takes a village". In our case, a Community. During my years of raising my kids, I had many challenges due to being a single parent. The one sided affair left little time for me and kids to have quality of time outside of my work schedule and their school schedule. By the time the day was done, there were only a few hours left for our quality time together. Now, thirty years later, I see so many who are experiencing a single parenting situation in their lives. And all I can think is, how did we get this way? How can we become a Family Sector that provides a stable foundation for our children. As I speak to youth, I hear heartbreaking stories. The main voice they are straining to speak is they don't know where to turn. Many are left without proper guidance because parents are busy with work and keeping up with the growing changes in society. If I could, I would become the Old Woman Who Living in a Shoe. My heart is completely drawn towards helping our youth become stronger in their values and become an advocate for their behalf to educate them to make a greater choice so they can make the right choices when it comes to relationships and marriage.
By Proactively Healthy5 years ago in Families
