sexual wellness

Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.

Forced Celibacy
I was tickled pink with laughter when I found the photo I needed to start off this blog and even though the sign above is coming through with a whole lot of shade, I promise the following wordplay will be judgment-free.
By Kai Storm8 years ago in Filthy
I Am a Slut
I lost my virginity when I was 16 years old. He wasn't my boyfriend, I didn't love him, it wasn't a romantic, candlelight and rose petal experience; I was drunk, so was he, and it happened. At the time, most of my friends were older and had already done it. When the opportunity of first time sex presented itself to me, with him taking my shorts off in a dimly lit bedroom after a party, my first thought was clear and immediate: Get it over with.
By TC Brown8 years ago in Filthy
The Growth of Sexual Identity
I recently met with my high school senior English teacher to talk about writing, sex, and sexual identity. (Yes, I still talk to both my 11th and 12th grade English teachers and yes, we talk about sex… sometimes. LOL) She reminded of my senior research project and that the topic I chose was “erotica.” (WTF?!) I couldn’t believe that she even remembered that paper! I was one of 500 students out of her high school teaching career and she remembered MY paper… Needless to say, I was shocked and honored. She also told me that she still had the original and was willing to give me a copy if I was interested in having one. YES!!!
By Reaux Tinkleflower8 years ago in Filthy
A Virgin's Point of View
I'm growing up. The things that yesterday looked so far, now look (and are) right in front of me. Sophomore year is over, junior year is almost here, and next thing you know I'll be walking up to a stage to get my diploma. I don't have my license and I have yet to take the SAT. Last year I wasn't even thinking about driving or about standardized tests because I thought I had time. I thought. Boy was I wrong. But one thing about getting older that really scares me is sex.
By Ria Baez8 years ago in Filthy
The Struggles for Women With High Libido
By the title I am sure your thinking I am losing my mind, but I promise I am not! I am a young female with a very heightened libido and I mean probably 10 times more than my man. Having a heightened libido for a female can make things very hard (no pun intended) and it can also put a strain on a relationship. So, I decided to do some research on this topic thinking I am the only one with this weird issue. Much to my surprise there are a bunch of women who suffer from this. My man and I are not even in our 30’s and my libido sex games are no match. There are a few different ways women with this may choose to go.
By Dolly Mae8 years ago in Filthy
Stories from a Stripper
For much as you’re praised and ogled over, lusted for and professed love for, and gave presents to...It can mean absolutely nothing when you, yourself, feel like garbage inside. I see these women and girls that I am not attracted to one bit. To each their own, right? But some of these girls in the field are so blazingly in love with themselves it inspires me to live more authentically and not give a fuck. They are teaching me how to make what you don’t like about yourself seem like the most natural and beautiful aspect of your personhood.
By Charlie McGnarly8 years ago in Filthy
I'm Addicted to Porn
I am addicted to porn. And I’m female. Does that shock you? For many it does. There’s a general misconception that porn addiction is exclusive to men, as if women are invulnerable to the habit. Consider it another double standard in regards to sexuality and the expression of it in men and women. But as a person living through the experience, I don’t believe anyone is exempt from its temptations.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Filthy
Watch the Porn, Bro
TMI? Never. I was six years old the first time I masturbated. Sounds weird, right? A child knowing how to do something like that? Makes you think, was I raised in a weird home? Was there something wrong with me? Did I experience something I shouldn't have? The answer to all of that is no, definitely not. I grew up in a completely normal household, with four siblings, a dog, and parents who loved and still love each other to death. I went to regular public school, had birthday parties, barbecues all the time, went on vacations and shit, I was even a Girl Scout. I wasn't deprived of anything, and I had a regular, small group of friends. To be honest, I’m not sure when it all started. But, what I do know, is that my young fascination and love for pleasure has led me to be one of the not-so-many people who are comfortable watching and talking about porn, sex, and masturbation.
By Niki Bambi8 years ago in Filthy
Exploring Yourself. Top Story - June 2018.
People often wonder about their sexual desires. They often wonder at what age should one prowl into their desires. I believe at the age of 16, everyone should understand the basic concept of sex. Now, should they partake in sex? My answer is that’s a conversation for you and your parents to decide. And if you are at a reasonable age then, the world is your oyster. So to everyone out there, I say, just think about it. At what age did you begin discovering yourself? And just know, that no matter what age it may be, know that you are not alone. There is nothing that you should be ashamed of.
By PsychedelHippie Smith8 years ago in Filthy
What Do "Wet Dreams in Men" Mean ?
Wet dreams that are more formally referred to as nocturnal emissions entail occurrence of a sudden orgasm, particularly while sleeping. This refers to either ejaculation, in the case of a male, or the wetness of the vagina, for females. These emissions occur most commonly during one’s early years of adulthood, but in certain cases, can also come about soon after the age of puberty. Men may either wake up while experiencing the orgasm or not wake up at all while it happens. So what causes this phenomenon to occur? The answer is simple.
By Brian Adam8 years ago in Filthy
I Wish the Slut Phase Was Just a Phase
As you're beginning to read this, you're preparing yourself for some sexual stories, and getting ready to please yourself to them. Well, my friends zip those pants back up and get ready for something far more intimate. The second someone reads the word "slut" they are associating it with the word "sex". Although recently I've discovered slut phases can be far more than just sleeping around, they can be "sexting" around. The woman often finds it easier to send sexual messages, than it is to actually act on them with someone. The honest truth behind that is we actually have the ability to leave the situation, no matter how persistent a man gets with us. We can turn our phone off, block the number, and screenshot the evidence to cops if the guy chooses to continue trying things with us. I've watched men get out of the situation by saying things like, "Well you wanted in the beginning, so it's okay."
By Amy Johnson8 years ago in Filthy
Best Exercise for Your Sex Life
Staying fit and healthy is important at all stages in life for everyone. We read about diet and exercise all the time, from paleo and ketogenic ways of eating to weight training, yoga, HIIT (high impact interval training) and many other trends. I'm no expert in this field, but I have made changes to my diet and exercise habits, which have resulted in tremendous benefits. If you are looking to tone up and trim down for better and adventurous sex, here are my suggestions:
By Vicki C8 years ago in Filthy