sexual wellness
Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.
Things She's Thinking When You're Going Down on Her
Receiving mind-blowing cunnilingus is almost every woman's dream. Whether it be a relationship or just a hookup, getting oral is an ultimate act of pleasure. What many don't know, however, is that the act of sex, —oral, coitus, anal, etc. — is more emotional and mental than it may appear to be. That doesn't mean we get attached the instant you eat us out, but getting in the right mindset and thinking certain thoughts definitely helps us get that much closer to reaching orgasm. Of course, not all women think this, but many of us can relate. Note: This is mostly from the perspective of a straight woman getting head from a man, but many of these can be applied to other genders as well. Read on to find out what goes on in our minds during oral!
By Ankita Upadhyay8 years ago in Filthy
How to Be More Sex Positive
As a former adult actress, I am more than familiar with sex. I am also familiar with those that deem sex as some sort of demonisation of the body and mind. When thinking about sex and all the wonderful things that come with it, it is important to remember that every single person in the world is different; therefore we can expect peoples views on sex to differ.
By Samantha Bentley8 years ago in Filthy
His Big O!
Alright, so I'm sure we are caught up on Gabrielle Union-Wade's comments on sexuality and sexual activity, particularly analingus (or eating butt). Of course, she's received some flack for it, but honestly I agree with her. There is absolutely nothing wrong with analingus. Personally, no, I do not do it, but I can't really say what I'll do in the future as there have been things that I have told myself I would never do sexually, but I still ended up doing them. This is because I am ever evolving in every way, including sexually, and I would hope the rest of you are too. So on that note, let's get to the meat of this discussion (or in this case, the cake) — a man and his booty. To be more specific, his prostate. A man's prostate is equivalent to a woman's G-Spot, and ladies, as we know, a G-Spot orgasm is almost an ethereal experience. It is the same with a man's P-Spot. For men, the most intense orgasm comes from their prostate; however, not all men get to experience that, which is quite unfortunate. The reasoning behind this originates from our preconceived notions fueled by false narratives surrounding a man's hygiene, his body, and his sexuality. With issues pertaining to the latter, I'm only going to say this once: UNLESS A MAN IS PURELY ATTRACTED TO OTHER MEN, HIS DESIRE TO ENGAGE IN ANAL ACTIVITY DOES NOT MAKE HIM A HOMOSEXUAL OR ANY OTHER PART OF THE GSRM COMMUNITY.
By Ayyona Hatcher8 years ago in Filthy
Best Positions for Pregnancy Sex. Top Story - April 2018.
Pregnancy sex is not easy. It can be hard to deal with body changes and hormone fluctuations. In fact, you might not even be attracted to your partner during this time. This happens for the same reason that contraception can affect your sex drive.
By Lizzie Boudoir8 years ago in Filthy
Best Sex Positions You Need to Know If You Want to Have Sex in a Public Bathroom
Having sex in a public bathroom is wild, raunchy, and crazy. That's why it's hot and why so many people out there have done it. If you want to have sex in a public bathroom, you need to be aware that not every position will work. You've got cramped space and possibly height issues to work out.
By Lizzie Boudoir8 years ago in Filthy
Can You Truly Be a Dominant?
Can someone completely accept your submission if they are in a primary relationship with another person that can end your relationship with your at any time, or if they don’t have time to tend to your needs each day? On the flip side of that, can a submissive truly submit if they have a primary partner that can make decisions superseding those of the Dominant, or even end the relationship all together? I guess that would depend on an individual’s needs. If you’re only looking for a sexual Dominant, maybe those needs can be met in an arrangement like this. That isn’t the type of arrangement that would fulfill my needs though. I don’t think I’d feel I had the authority and control I desire as a Dominant in an arrangement designed this way.
By Luke Windrow8 years ago in Filthy
Best Female Masturbation Techniques
As Cyndi Lauper once said, "Girls just wanna have fun." And while it is fun to have a playmate, it's also fun to do our own thing. No offense, guys or girls—sometimes it's nice to shut the curtains (or not), lie back (or not), and indulge in oneself. There are two types of women in this world: those who masturbate and those who lie. We all do it. Go on, admit it! Nobody’s going to point the finger at you (not before they’ve washed it, anyway).
By Ailish Delaney8 years ago in Filthy
Being Comfortable Talking About Intercourse
“I’m so glad I have you to talk to about this, no one ever wants to talk about their sex life, so I don’t know if this is wrong or not,” a friend commented in a car ride after a long discussion about a pain she was feeling during intercourse. With a nurse for a mother, maybe talking about uncomfortable topics has become comfortable. Maybe it is because I was raised in a very open communicative environment. Either way, society has a problem with keeping sex (and sex discussions) behind closed doors.
By Ashlyn Harper8 years ago in Filthy
