sexual wellness

Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.

Hershey
When the guy you are casually sleeping with pulls out a condom in accordance to your rule about him using a condom if he has sex with another girl, it ruins the mood a little. For me, not enough to stop, but enough to cringe when he isn't looking and take a little longer to get into the swing of things.
By O8 years ago in Filthy
Dangers of Anal Sex
Anal sex has become incredibly popular over the years, and to a point, has become a 'sex status symbol' of sorts. Guys like to brag about being let in the out door, and rates of people trying out butt stuff have never been higher.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy8 years ago in Filthy
I Touch Myself!
Do you touch yourself? Of course you do! We all do. It's one of the greatest feelings you can have all by yourself because you know exactly what you want, you know how you want it and you know to get it off when needed. For me, masturbation started as a way to take the edge off in order to go longer when I was being orally pleased. My first boyfriend used to get very upset with me when I came too quickly. I started pushing him away from my sensitive area in order not to have a push and shove moment when I had an orgasm, I would kind of 'starter up' down there so she was ready for the fierce tongue lashing. Right before we had sex, I would rub my clit not to that point but just enough that it would take longer to get there. He was pleased and I was in heaven; it worked out. Then one day, I was sitting in my room with a long length mirror and I was taking a closer look at my pussy. Every time I looked at her, there would always be a certain curiosity like....there was always something that made me say....'WOW', okay....I wanted to know about every detail and check out every nook. It is the most interesting part of my body as far as I'm concerned so it was easy to get lost while exploring her. This day in particular though, my exploration involved a lot of touching and rubbing. Because I was no where near my boyfriend, I was completely alone in my room, my mind insisted that I stop immediately. It kept telling me there was no need for this as I had no dick or tongue to sit on anywhere around me but baby....my loins insisted that I go on, that I continue on this journey and find out where it will take me. I rubbed my clitoris, I swayed my waist in circles and I stared at my sweetness in the mirror as it spilled my juices all over my hands. When I was done, the sense of a thrilled release made me laugh out loud then I wondered to myself...why hadn't I tried that before? Certainly seemed like a fun thing to do!
By Kai Storm8 years ago in Filthy
Male Sexual Performance and Smoking
Every guy — of course — should be (and generally is) concerned about male sexual performance, namely their own. Now, I admit that I haven't been able to get myself to quit smoking either, but I wanted to write this to inform other men and women. The effects that smoking has on the body is literally the opposite of what Viagra does to the male body. The physical and chemical changes Viagra uses to get the hard-on result is the opposite of the physical and chemical changes that smoking does to the body. In visual terms:
By Timothy Rowland8 years ago in Filthy
Optimizing Your Orgasms
The female orgasm is often regarded as elusive and complex, but it's surprisingly simple. If you've struggled to have consistent orgasms, all you need is a bit of willpower (and a willing partner).
By Lady Luck8 years ago in Filthy
Sex Files: Brittany 3, Truck Fucks that Knock Up
This will be the last of the Brittany tales, every other encounter to follow was more of a vacation for her, and we didn't really fuck when it came too. But I did choke her out with my dick in the back of her throat.
By Zachery Lee8 years ago in Filthy
Abreast of the Breast
No matter what my weight has been in my life, smaller or larger, there has been one constant. I have big breasts. I sprouted breasts before all the other girls in my class and had to start wearing a training bra at age nine. By 13, I had Double D boobs and these days I would say they are around an H or I even though I still stuff them into Double D bras because larger bras are stupid expensive and hard to find.
By Sarah Sparks9 years ago in Filthy
Love Lost but Found
Kelsey had been feeling low for a few years now. Ten years ago, she couldn't stop thinking about one guy that had her affections. His name was Allen. She claimed he stole her heart, and now she was back in his life. Or so she thought...
By Kimberly Groff9 years ago in Filthy
Are You With Your Sexual Soul-mate?
Sex isn't always completely serious, romantic or "Fifty Shades" of intense. When you're with "the One," there's all kinds of emotions.
By Emily Adams9 years ago in Filthy
5 Reasons She's a Virgin in Her 20s
Let's start off like this. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin in your 20s! Adult virgins are tired of being called PRUDE for not having sex at a certain age or following the social clock in general. They are also tired of being portrayed as shy, helplessly innocent women awaiting the dominium of a man (eww! misogynistic much?). If I had a dime for every single time I heard, "You don't look like a virgin" or "You didn't tell me you were a virgin!" I could... realistically buy me a bottle of whiskey (I ain't got a lot of friends). It's very ironic to me because as women, if we have sex at an early age, we are slut shamed, if we have sex at a later age, we are prude and "unskilled" in the act. If you haven't had sexual intercourse in your 20s, 30s or older, that is completely fine and normal. Fuck the virgin shamers!
By PHILLY THE AFRICANA9 years ago in Filthy
Making Peace with the Penalty Box
There’s a deafening silence at the intersection of slut-shaming, toxic masculinity, and stigmatizing mental struggle, a hole where a conversation ought to be.
By Devyn onEarth9 years ago in Filthy
SexFiles: Part 3 (Brittany)
After Savannah, I was broken, I spent a while in and out of Juvi, found myself in a mental hospital on more than a few occasions, and basically gave up on love altogether. Then, I met Brittany. It IS kinda of messy how this all started with her, and I was older by a few years than she was. I was 18 when me and Brittany started fooling around, she had/has this childlike innocence that easily masks all of the pain and agony that she deals with on a daily. She's definitely someone who tends to try and find herself in other people. Now, at the time, I actually did care a lot about this girl. I was so blinded by having her around that I would even put myself in a position to be walked all over. She did mistreat me, but I took her purity and in that, she kind of just went crazy, became a slute for a while, and wound up with a daughter that she had to drop out of school for. This would be the story of WHEN I took her virginity.
By Zachery Lee9 years ago in Filthy