sexual wellness

Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.

A Nineteen-Year-Old's Sex Diary Part 1
The first time I ever had sex I was sixteen years old. My parents think to this day that I am a virgin, probably due to the fact that my first love was a boy so Christian he went to church service twice a week and was involved in church activities almost every other day of the week.
By Iris9 years ago in Filthy
Is Depression Ruining Your Sex Life?
The short answer? Probably. The long answer: It's complicated. There is no doubt that the mind plays an integral role in sexual activities. In a successful sexual encounter, the mind and body are synchronized to maximize the pleasurable aspect of sex. But what happens when mind and body are not in sync?
By Celina Calma9 years ago in Filthy
SexFiles: Part 2 (Savannah)
So, now that we've gotten over one of the worst, I want to dig into one of the best. This one lasted roughly 6 months to a year. I legitimately LOVED this girl with all of my heart, but, in the end, found out she had been unfaithful to me in my darkest days. Either way, I present to you, Savannah.
By Zachery Lee9 years ago in Filthy
Just Sex. Good Sex. Magic Sex.
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t have a problem with that. I think what people do in the bedroom and the position they do it in, it’s not really my business. My point is that, with a little consideration and care in choosing the partner, sex can become the stuff of legends. For both sides.
By Oana Petrache9 years ago in Filthy
SexFiles: Part 1 (Lost Beyond Innocence)
As I've been delving into these creative/descriptive writing pieces about my life, I couldn't help but trace back to some of these Sexual Conquests I've been in BUT, bringing them up in the context of the stories I've already posted would be inappropriate for the chosen site distribution...SO, I've decided to break them down, and get REALLY descriptive in them piece by piece. So here's from first to last, The most memorable Sexcapades of my lifetime.
By Zachery Lee9 years ago in Filthy
The Chastity Project - Chapter Three
In my other blog - the autism one - I spoke about an encounter I had with a bull. I lived on a farm when I was young, and this bull used to terrify me. One day, I tried to stare it down, and it started shaking its head, stamping its hooves, snorting loudly - generally acting like a fucking psychopath. My nerve broke and I ran away from it. I was completely safe from it. It was in a pen, and there was no way it could get at me. But it was still a terrifying moment, for an eight-year-old boy.
By Graham Farquhar9 years ago in Filthy
The Local From Manchester
A couple of years ago I managed to secure myself a morbidly dull office job working in sales straight out of Compton- I mean university.
By Jai Pal9 years ago in Filthy
Ways to Incorporate Sex Into Your Daily Routine
You enter your front door after a long days work and all you can see is her. Looking all voluptuous and fresh and all you want to do is peel off your work clothes and climb right on top of her. Maybe even pour a glass of wine or two. I wish I could say I was talking about your partner, but I'm not. Unfortunately, I'm talking about your couch. What? You try and tell me with a straight face that the sight of your cool sofa after a long day doesn't make you all tingly inside. Does for me!
By Jus L'amore9 years ago in Filthy
Of Porn and Shame
Millions of people around the world use porn, that is an established fact [1], and I don't see a problem with it per se. However, what is disturbing, and you don't need to be on the internet long to realise it, is that most porn in no way reflects the type of sexual scenarios the average of these millions of people is going to experience.
By Boxy Wilde9 years ago in Filthy
What Is a Demisexual?. Top Story - July 2017.
Today's sexual orientations aren't just stuck to homosexuality, bisexuality, or heterosexuality. As sexologists continue to study sexual attraction, it's becoming clear that sexuality is a spectrum and that not all people fit in "traditional" orientations.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart9 years ago in Filthy
Virginity: I
Now, I want to start this by saying: there is absolutely 0 things wrong with being inexperienced sexually, not being sexually active, or being a virgin. You are no better or worse of a person if you have or have not had sex. Virginity is a construct that was created to repress peoples basic desires, first out of a religious hatred of hedonistic freedom, and later as a pseudoscientific, sexist, "moral" one.
By Sam Faker9 years ago in Filthy
Pros and Cons of Period Sex
Whether we like it or hate it, period sex is a thing. It's not like women can help having their periods, and it's also not like guys can help being horny. Once in a while, period sex will happen—even among vanilla couples.
By Mackenzie Z. Kennedy9 years ago in Filthy