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My Experience With Married Man and Why A Lot of Girls Follow Them - Tacha

Tacha opens up

By Jide OkonjoPublished about a year ago 3 min read

Outspoken Nigerian media personality Tacha is the latest guest on Madam Joyce's podcast, and during her time on the show, she opened up about married men, and why some girls go after them. She also opened up about her own experience with a married man who ghosted her and how she found out that he was married. Here's what Tacha had to say.

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Speaking about the economy, married men, and her personal story, Tacha said:

TACHA: Everyone is going through these hard times including the brands, the influencers, the people. So unless you're doing some corner-side kind of business, you're not going to have in excess to enjoy.

And the thing with Naija is that when you now have to follow the men that are giving you the money in excess, then you're in all of the blogs. "Oh you're following this man, you're following that man." Do you understand? But you expect the public figures to look good, and then the brands are paying shit. It's how some girls are making their money, and the thing is me I'm not going to blame anybody for nothing because at the end of the day, you need to look good.

You, as a man, what do you want from me? Whatever you want from me, what do I want from you? You don't want to be the one to get used. We have guys that have families, and everything is going on well with them, and then they come to you as a single girl, and they don't even tell you they're married. So, you you're coming with the "ah, let's date as like boyfriend and girlfriend" but you have a whole family right behind you. Do you understand? When you find out, your whole head will want to blow. Like, okay then, why didn't I take as much money as I should have taken? So please let me be, so I can go and find my own love of my life. It's important.

The one that happened with me, I didn't get to see no wedding ring. Like he just literally ghosted and I just started stalking and I was like let me use your name and search out places. I went on Facebook, I went on Instagram, and I was just seeing pictures with like a wife and kids and I was like what?! Why una dey lie like this? Just open your mouth and talk. Certain people like certain things. There are certain girls that only do married men. Find your spec of people and meet them. Don't come and be misleading me into rubbish.

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