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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Here's Why You Leave University As A Different Individual
Everyone changes. It's inevitable. But what does university teach you? It doesn't just teach you about your course. There are a plethora of other things beyond your course that you will learn about. These things will change you. Before I became a student I had a schema of how and what university would be like, but I never thought about how it would shape me into the person I am today.
By Ri8 years ago in Humans
Defining the Relationship
The moment a man hears the phrase “we need to talk”, he immediately breaks out in a cold sweat. Yes, I’m talking about the dreaded where is this relationship going talk. Well, I have news for you men, some women dread it too. But wherever you fall on the dread scale, defining the relationship is something that needs to be done. After all, who revels in waking up day after day not knowing where your relationship is going? It’s brutal! And so DTR (defining the relationship) becomes a necessity…
By Heart Centered Universe8 years ago in Humans
Go Ahead, Judge Me
I am sick and tired of hearing people preach about how we shouldn't judge others. We all judge everyone else whether you want to admit it or not. Every single person instantly forms opinions about other people in their mind when they meet them. Whether it be something small or something complimentary, we all still do it. We may later find out that opinion was wrong, or it might be proved to be correct. Whatever, it still happens and it is OK.
By Hannah Amiee8 years ago in Humans
My Love Language
We all have a love language. It is what our significant other can do to speak volumes to our heart and soul. It is what makes our heart pound, our smile widen, and our butterflies to flutter in our stomach. It is what is conveyed in every love story and rom-com. Sometimes others share certain words, metaphorically, that is in our dictionary. So through my list of what really brightens my day and warms my soul, you may find something that you want in your life. It takes time to find what language you hear the loudest, but never be afraid to ask if someone is willing to learn some of your words. You will have to learn theirs too, because after all love is two people with enough desire in each other that the compromises seem like a walk in the park. Well enough of this metaphor crap, for now, here are the things that speak volumes to me.
By Cali Love8 years ago in Humans
17 Conversation Starters for Long Term Relationship Life. Top Story - June 2018.
That moment in a long-term relationship, when you look at your partner and realize you have just been telling them that one story about your aunt's crazy dog for the seventeenth time.
By Bekah Writes8 years ago in Humans
Give the New Relationship a Fair Shot!
At some point, we all have to learn how to move on from those relationships that were simply toxic to our well-being. Even though we still have vivid memories of spending time with that individual, we also have to consider the reality of the matter, which is that it didn’t work out and if it was meant to work out, then it would have.
By Tanisha Davis8 years ago in Humans
10 Ways the People Close to You Could Slowly Be Destroying Your Self-Esteem
One small comment and you can shake it off; a series of small comments over time and your self-esteem slowly wears down. Once this happens, you might stop feeling free to be yourself and to express yourself. You could slip into a depression and you might even start to hate yourself.
By Test8 years ago in Humans
Finding Our 'One'
Disclaimer: This is not general relationship advice. Not every relationship will work the same. That's the best part! The uniqueness of each one!
By David LeSieur8 years ago in Humans
Contact
When two hearts meet and choose each other, I like to imagine that the ancestors and spirits join together to celebrate that love connection. They gather together in community, fireworks, the singing of choirs, and harps strumming. An idealistic land where we get approval by a higher realm, and it's not something that we see, it is something that we feel. If you let your mind and body want to manifest anything, it will. I can vouch for that many times over. I believe that when you take your eyes from that thing in which you wanted to manifest in the first place, then you lose the thing that you wanted to begin with, and have to start back at square one. I was on a spiritual journey this time last year. It was the beginning of the summer, I was feeling very frustrated, very anxious, and my self-worth was less than 6 feet under. This was because I lacked a positive relationship with who I was, and my mind was tricking me to believe that the way that I was, was toxic. When we feed ourselves these spirit killers, as I like to call it, this truly blocks us from receiving that in which we truly want. How do you want to be touched? I love that this question seems so erotic, but it's not for me.
By SAYHERNAME Morgan Sankofa8 years ago in Humans
Making Peace with People Who Wronged You
When people are vulnerable and communicate freely, it is easier to forgive them. It is easier to work through things with them, it is easier to empathise with them, understand them, relate to them.
By Rebecca McPhillips8 years ago in Humans
Cutting Ties
Sometimes, you really do have to disconnect, completely. It took me a while to come to terms with this. Because for so long I allowed people to determine for me what's [considered] right or wrong. I'm done with allowing people to make decisions for me. I can make them for myself. This is a topic we hardly, if ever, speak on. But it's a topic that's necessary to touch on. We live in a world where a gross amount of our followings and social media "friend's list" aren't truly friends at all, or even associates. They are made up primarily of people we are trying to prove our success to or too fearful to disconnect from. But why? I could care less about proving to you that my life is great without you in it... that my life is great period... or posting visuals of how "abundant God's blessings are in my life."
By Juanita Davis8 years ago in Humans
Introvert to Extrovert
Am I an introvert or extrovert? Is that a question you've ever found yourself struggling with? It seems like such a silly thing to ask yourself, but if you're anything like me it's not necessarily the question that bothers you, but the constant differences in your mood that confuses you.
By Alivia Evans8 years ago in Humans