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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..

Self-Love Required
“I think the most important thing in life is self-love, because if you don't have self-love, and respect for everything about your own body, your own soul, your own capsule, then how can you have an authentic relationship with anyone else?” - Shailene Woodley
By Anonymous8 years ago in Humans
Know Your Worth
Love can be an amazing thing; however, one-sided love can be destroying. You are worth more than how you are/were treated. If he/she puts you down every day, makes you feel unwanted, threatens to leave over every move you make, cusses at you, screams at you, they do NOT deserve you.
By Leesa Whitt8 years ago in Humans
Bring Passion Back into Your Life
How to bring the passion back into your relationship after its been routine for a while is one of the easiest, and hardest, things to do. It's easy because, though things have become routine, you still love each other. It's hard because, sometimes, breaking that routine can prove to be a challenge. Many people aim for some kind of routine in their daily lives, this is true. But, when you aim to have everything organized, including your sex life, things can get just a little dull. So, I've got eight helpful ways for you and your partner to get that passion back and kick some of that routine away for a few minutes.
By Sierra I8 years ago in Humans
Everyone Wants to Be Wanted
We've all heard the song. I want you to want me... I need you to need me... I'd love you to love me... I'm begging you to beg me... The song by Gary Jules, though somewhat forgotten in its age, is timeless for, at least, one reason: So many people can relate.
By Sierra I8 years ago in Humans
Suddenly Toxic
It’s no secret that it’s important to remove toxic relationships from your life. But that may not be easy depending on the person in question. You may not want to completely remove this person from your life, and it’s important to question why they have suddenly become toxic. Because life situations aren’t always black-and-white, we don’t always know why someone has become toxic, and we can actually do more harm by removing a person who is in desperate need of support and understanding.
By Auty Lynn8 years ago in Humans
Can I Keep You
After years of constantly being hurt and let down, one typically gives up. Our hearts were not meant to be broken like they so often feel, and in turn, most people turn cold and distance themselves from everyone around them. I did that myself.
By Elaine Grey8 years ago in Humans
5 Signs You've Met Your Soulmate
Everyone wants to find that special one who leaves a burning spark in their soul and makes them want to become a better human. But there must be signs the universe gives you in order to truly make a soulful impact on your life. Many people believe that when you meet your soulmate you just instantly connect and that's it. But it doesn't end there friends. You have to make sacrifices and changes to your life in order to make a growing relationship work, but that's another tale to tell soon.
By Amina M8 years ago in Humans
How You Can Make the Internet a Better Place
The internet is undoubtedly the most incredible invention on the planet. It allows us to research anything at any time, it allows us to connect with people all over the world within milliseconds, and it allows us to share our thoughts and pictures and lives with any number of people all at once.
By Jessica Rowe8 years ago in Humans
How to Stand Up to Bullies
I grew up with non-stop aggression in my life from home and school, since I went to a private Catholic school that allowed enormous bullying to happen. I can’t stand cowards who can’t cope with bullies, since certainly I can. I was not removed from a hostile environment despite how much I asked to be sent to public school. I also survived a private high school with more bullies there since my freshman year. I was told how to properly kill myself by students who wanted to bully me out of school. I eventually learned how not to be aggressive because of my medication. They were endlessly creative about how I was to be suicidal. When I read about bullycides now, I have to wonder at why the bullies succeeded in getting their victims to kill themselves.
By Iria Vasquez-Paez8 years ago in Humans
International Relationships
Due to my own observation on social media, I would say the number of international marriages has increased. I would also say that being provided with different methods of communication has made that possible. For example, before all these various platforms to communicate, if you met someone on holiday, the likelihood of maintaining anything was difficult. I mean nobody is willing to spend a crazy amount of money calling long distance that is for sure, which takes away the chance to really get to know someone so far away. We live in a time where people have virtual friends and networks, giving them an endless amount of opportunities to flourish both in career and life. This form of communication has not only expanded our access to each other, but has given people the chance to form unlikely relationships.
By N.M.E8 years ago in Humans
9 Reasons Why Men Cheat
Have you ever been in a serious relationship where things seemed perfect? You both confessed your love for one another (or so you thought). You've made plans for your futures together, building strong bonds with each family, etc...
By Tanoafa Moa8 years ago in Humans
Getting over a Breakup but I Really Miss the Sex!
Dear Sybersue, I haven’t been in a relationship for over 2 years due to my last breakup and all the drama that I had to deal with. I took some time away from men to heal and figure out what the Hell happened because I never want to have go through that again.
By Susan McCord8 years ago in Humans