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The dark side of OF & its intentions & how to break free from lustful intent . Content Warning.
The platform OnlyFans may seem "glamourous" but it has the dark truth behind it that's twisted the minds of it's creators along with it's audience. It markets itself as empowerment and freedom, but underneath is it carefully designed to hook both creators and consumers into an endless cycle that leaves them emptier than before. What looks like a choice is often really exploitation - of your body, your mind, and your soul.
By Bri Szumera28 days ago in Humans
The Dangers of Not Having Your Coffee
5:30 a.m. and my husband coos at me asking if I am awake. I am now, but barely. He tells me he is off to work, checked the fire downstairs, and that is will be fine until I wake up (until 7:30 a.m.). Cool. I set my alarm for 7:30 and head back into some delicious dream, I can’t remember anymore. No I would not tell you, even if I could remember the dream)
By Alexandra Grant28 days ago in Humans
Follow Your Passion Is Bad Advice
Everyone told Noah the same thing. “Follow your passion.” “Do what you love, and the money will follow.” “Passion is everything.”
By MIGrowth28 days ago in Humans
The Power of Tears
The three of them were sitting in a park, staring at the money placed before them. The amount taken from the stolen wallet consisted of three hundred-rupee notes, one fifty-rupee note, and one ten-rupee note—making a total of three hundred and sixty rupees. Seeing such a small amount filled all three with disappointment.
By Sudais Zakwan28 days ago in Humans
Feeling Lost: The Uncomfortable Phase Nobody Talks About but Everyone Goes Through
Feeling lost is one of the most misunderstood experiences in life. People treat it like failure. Like weakness. Like something to be embarrassed about.
By mike28 days ago in Humans
What to Know Before Buying Himalayan Salt Bricks in Bulk
Salt Wall Designing When constructing a salt room for a premium spa, designing a salt wall for a restaurant, or stocking salt bricks for retail, salt bricks set the wellness and natural aesthetic for your project. Sourcing salt bricks in bulk is a significant investment, and the profit of the investment relies on the quality of the salt bricks.
By Emily Rosie29 days ago in Humans
Appearance Psychology
You don’t get to choose when it starts. The first time it happens, you're too young to name it — just old enough to feel it.
By Randolphe Tanoguem29 days ago in Humans
Pride: The Silent Enemy That Makes You Lose Battles You Could Have Won
Pride is one of those things people brag about like it’s a trophy. They say, “I’ve got pride,” like it automatically means confidence, strength, or dignity.
By mike29 days ago in Humans
Being Lost Isn’t a Failure — It’s a Pause Between Versions of Yourself
Being lost doesn’t announce itself loudly. It doesn’t come with chaos or breakdowns all the time. Sometimes it arrives quietly — in the form of boredom, restlessness, or a strange sense that something is off.
By mike29 days ago in Humans
The Black Woman and Racism: A Personal Reflection
I grew up with white friends, and I know that sounds familiar, but I genuinely did. One of my first best friends was a sweet girl named Maria who wore thick glasses and had beautiful brown hair. Tragically, she lost her life in a hit-and-run accident, a loss that deeply affected me. I attended a predominantly white Southern Baptist Christian school where we all got along well, and I personally never experienced racism during those years. Yes, I grew up in South Carolina where racism is deeply embedded in the culture, but somehow it remained hidden from my immediate experience.
By MsRayBay29 days ago in Humans
Mental Health: The Battle You Can’t See but Feel Every Day
Mental health is often misunderstood because it doesn’t show up the way physical pain does. You can’t point to it easily. You can’t always explain it clearly.
By mike29 days ago in Humans
Arthur Gea and the Silence That Makes People Keep Searching
Some names feel loud the moment you hear them. Others are quiet, almost unfinished, and that is what makes them stay with you. Arthur Gea is one of those names. People come across it briefly, maybe in a document, a comment, or a passing mention, and then pause. There is no clear story waiting at the top of the page. No summary that explains everything. Just a name and a sense that there should be more. In a world built on instant answers, that absence feels strange. This article explores why Arthur Gea continues to draw attention, what the lack of information reveals about modern curiosity, and how silence itself can create meaning.
By Muqadas khan29 days ago in Humans