dating

All about dating. First dates, three years into a relationship, Tinder, and more.

Lessons From My Love Life
In all honesty, I don’t believe in love because of what has happened to me. Like, yeah I have loved someone but, I don’t believe in TRUE love. Although I am still young, I don’t think I will ever feel what true love is but, when I was in the 8th grade, I entered my longest relationship of 7 months to date (I’m still young, don’t question it). I thought I was in love with him and that we would be something to call forever but, I was obviously wrong. Why did I think that an 8th grade relationship would last? I don’t know. I loved him but, love fades. The time that I was with him, I was the happiest. Then, that faded and everyday I cried because I knew he wasn’t treating me right. I knew his love faded away. I just didn’t want it to happen but, bitches will be bitches. In our happier moments, I went to his house and played games with him, went out with friends, smiled and laughed. I remember going to the city and walking around. Things then changed. We argued, cried and stopped talking once in awhile. We broke up and made up. That’s when I knew that we weren’t going to last and obviously, how is a 8th grade relationship going to last. I just didn’t want to think about the end, I wanted it to keep going. He was actually older than me by 4 years. So, yeah I regret it. Never date a senior, kids! Despite the grade difference as I entered high school, we had a class together and sometimes we would just ignore each other. Even after being mad, he tried to act like he cared but, just walked away. It left me crying in the bathroom. He broke up with me after about 3 months of hardship. I cried day and night, felt like shit and begged him to not break up with me. I wrote paragraphs and got replied back with sentences. It made me feel more like shit knowing that he did not want me back. Let me tell you, do not ever fight and beg for someone that does not have the same feelings for you. Please, let them go. Don’t hold onto them thinking of your past with them and thinking that the reason why they won’t go is because of all the good memories you have had. Those memories will now be known as a waste of time because he will leave. I mean, circumstances are different for everyone but, I believe that you must be with someone that loves you as much as you love them. No matter how much you love them, you can move on. I wish I said these words to myself back then but, I made myself look like an idiot and I will never do that again. I will never fight back for a man that doesn’t love me. If they don’t want you, let them go. It’s the best thing even though it will feel like the worst at the moment. They are not worth being in your life if they let you go so easily. I let the boy I loved go, and I was 10 times better without him. To think, why would someone hold onto someone they stopped loving? Whoever does that is a bitch. Although I was in love, I don’t think it was true love. It wasn’t real. People change and feelings fade overtime. It’s reality and you just have to go with it. Just remember, mistakes will make you better even though it was a waste of my time. That was lesson one, from my love life.
By ghost ing8 years ago in Humans
Don't Give Up! 5 Helpful Dating Tips While Using Online Sites
There is hope on dating sites! If you get out often great, but if you're like me going out is rarely an option, especially with kids so it is difficult to meet people. That's why I turned to online dating sites and apps to fill my alone time. Believe me I thought I had seen it all, but dating sites can be scary. You just need to know what to look for if you're looking for something long term. Then you can ween out the bad options to meet love sooner. I was on the sites for about a year and a half on and off and realized the mistakes I was making. Here are five things to be aware of while you are picking a match:
By Gayle Elizabeth8 years ago in Humans
Angel on the Train
It was a day like every other day, James had boarded the train home, the same train he rode every day, at the same time, from the same place. He didn’t pay much attention to others on the train, just sat on his phone, playing games, scrolling through social media, counting the stops to his own.
By Jenna Burch8 years ago in Humans
Women
It really is simple! Ever sit there and think to yourself, what’s really the best way to get a women’s attention? The secret is women really are simpler than they make it. You may think you’re not attractive enough, or confident enough to even get a text back, but the truth is anyone can get a lady in bed. Now I’m not saying the goal is to get a woman in bed, no but even to know you have got a chance is already a step forward. I am confident that this can apply to every man... or women who have known the struggle of even holding up a conversation or even tried to get attention from a lady. When we think about it, countless opportunities have passed us where that person could have been our soulmate or even a life lesson. I got to the point where I was tired of having to wait for that “one person” to come into my life when I can bring myself into their lives and decide for myself who really is the one for me and until this day I have more options to choose from than I could imagine. By following these clear steps and using them, I grantee you will get that text back and get to where you want by being in control and you will be dying for more tips.
By Kay8 years ago in Humans
Happily Ever After
I've always dreamed of life as a fairytale. For my whole life, I have been obsessed with Walt Disney's Princesses, especially the redheaded Little Mermaid. I would fantasize over my very own Prince Charming, and wanting to be with the same "Prince" my whole life: from Love At First Sight to Happily Ever After. I learned it was possible, but not likely.
By Schuyler Malone8 years ago in Humans
"But No! I'm Different..."
WHY do we always do this to ourselves? Why do we always think that we will be the one to change him? Why do we so desperately want to believe that we have some kind of super-woman power to make him see the light?
By Danielle McLean8 years ago in Humans
What It's Really Like Dating "The Bad Boy"
At least one point in every woman's life, she has dated/slept with a stereotypical "bad boy". I feel like nowadays a "bad boy" is actually just a "fuck boy".
By Danielle McLean8 years ago in Humans
How I Learned Who NOT to Date
A little over a year ago, I was in a bad spot in my life, living in a crappy, two-bedroom, one-bathroom apartment with my parents, sister, and my mother’s coworker. I was a clean-cut girl who did not do anything. I was 18 and still a virgin, waiting until marriage.
By Mia Neel8 years ago in Humans
A Guide to Dating Terminology
Finding love is never easy. The dating game is tiring and confusing, filled with: late night chats, doubts that romance is even worth it, and 'will you?/won't you?’ moments that’ll keep you on your toes.
By Luke Goude8 years ago in Humans
4,600 Miles to None
If someone came up to me two years ago and said to me that the boy I would fall in love with would live 4,600 miles away from me, I would laugh and say that would never happen. See my past relationships were quite rocky as I was cheated on by all the boyfriends I’ve ever had. So just after March 2016 I was starting fresh, I spent more time with my family and myself to create a thick layer of love and passion for everything around me. I was starting to enjoy myself and who I was becoming. I was excelling in school and spending time with the right people.
By Kirsten Cox8 years ago in Humans
The End of Dating for Me!
I am 61-years-old. I wish that I had a fascinating story to tell you, but I don't have one. I have seen things and been through things that no one cares to hear about. So, I will concentrate on talking about the imaginary — my dating life.
By Maurice Bernier8 years ago in Humans
Sex and the City Plus Kids
It may be a while since you have dated, or you may be new to the single mummy dating scene but rest assured we have you covered! Dig out the clothes that aren't covered in dried Heinz tomato soup and get some lipstick on! You will probably want to go home after an hour but dating is a good way to fill up one's time on occasion, plus it's a chance to talk about current events instead of your child's invisible best friend Rosie. Make sure to have several Nesquick bars stuffed into your handbag just in case he takes you somewhere quirky (read: tiny food portions) and don't forget to put on deodorant (sometimes I don't bother, he can like it or lump it).
By Eve Tawfick8 years ago in Humans