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Whether you're solitary by choice or simply unlucky in love, being single is complicated.
The Emotional Cost Of Ghosting And Sudden Romantic Disappearances
Ghosting has now been an everyday occurrence in dating, particularly with the emergence of online dating and dating apps. Humans are able to establish emotional attachment within a short period of time only to find the other party vanish without any notice. This is a silent denouement, which makes people puzzled and emotionally disoriented. In the absence of closure, the mind finds it hard to process the wrong that took place. Most conversations are replayed, trying to find the errors and even thinking they are the cause of the disappearance. The emotional blow is even more powerful than a blunt refusal since the not knowing makes one uncertain and desirous of answers but this is not the case.
By Kellee Bernier6 days ago in Humans
The Emotional Chaos Of Modern Dating Nobody Honestly Talks About
Contemporary dating is quite fast paced and is something that the human heart was not meant to deal with. Through the dating application, social media and instant messaging, individuals can encounter, bond and vanish in few days. This rapid cycle causes emotional whiplash where one can be excited and then quickly disappointed and confused. People are supposed to live within the rapid emotional shifts with no time of processing their emotions. The repetitive nature of connections as they start and stop consumes emotional resources, which make people feel tired and disconnected. What is started as a hope turns into stress, and dating is not as romantic as it appears to be a survival of emotions.
By Tiana Alexandra6 days ago in Humans
What Kills Long-Distance Relationships Faster Than Cheating
Long-distance relationships put most couples' emotional strength to the test in unexpected ways. While we often blame adultery for breakups, we consistently observe that many long-distance relationships end before infidelity occurs. The true damage is frequently caused by quieter difficulties that develop over time and gradually erode trust, connection, and emotional safety.
By Relationship Guide7 days ago in Humans
Let's Celebrate a Beheading
I am confused. The entire world spends billions on a holiday, that should not even be such. Not one person, can tell me why they do, or why it is celebrated to begin with. I am taking about Valentine’s day. One of the biggest money makers for commercialism in the world. So, why do we take this one day a year to express love to our dearly devoted.
By Alexandra Grant7 days ago in Humans
Essence, Embodiment, and Relational Reality
The Failure of Reduction and the Need for Synthesis There is a persistent failure in many modern attempts to explain what a human being is. Some frameworks reduce the person entirely to matter, insisting that identity, consciousness, morality, and meaning are nothing more than emergent properties of physical processes. Other frameworks move in the opposite direction, detaching spirit from reason and grounding belief in intuition alone, often at the cost of coherence or accountability. Both approaches fail because both misunderstand essence. One denies that essence exists at all. The other treats it as something vague and undefinable.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast7 days ago in Humans
Resistance Is Not the Enemy
Iron sharpens iron. Brakes save lives. Friction preserves form. Modern culture treats resistance as failure. Anything that slows momentum is framed as obstruction, anything that introduces friction is assumed to be opposition, and anything that interrupts progress is labeled a setback. But this instinct misunderstands how both physical systems and human growth actually work. Resistance is not inherently hostile. In many cases, it is the only thing preventing collapse.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast8 days ago in Humans
The Refiner’s Fire Is Not the Whetstone
There is a difference between being sharpened and being transformed, and confusing the two leads to frustration when growth does not feel productive. Sharpening implies refinement of existing form. Fire implies change in composition. Both processes are uncomfortable, but they operate on different levels and for different purposes. When people expect sharpening and receive fire instead, they often assume something has gone wrong, when in reality something deeper is taking place.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast8 days ago in Humans
You See From Where You Stand
"The room remains full whether you can see it or not." One of the most persistent misunderstandings about perception is the assumption that seeing is the same as knowing. People often believe that if something feels clear, it must be complete, and if something feels obscure, it must be absent. But awareness does not work that way. What you perceive at any moment is not a measure of what exists. It is a measure of what your current position allows to pass through.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast8 days ago in Humans
(17) The Shape of the Work
This essay exists to make the structure of the series visible after the fact. It does not introduce new arguments or advance new claims. Its purpose is architectural. It explains how the work is organized, why the sequence matters, and what each movement is responsible for accomplishing. Without this reference, readers may grasp individual insights while missing the coherence of the whole. With it, the series can be understood as a single, intentional construction rather than a collection of adjacent essays.
By Peter Thwing - Host of the FST Podcast8 days ago in Humans
