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A Challenge to Change Your Metaphor

Reframing Urban Living Through Play, Faith, and Community Renewal

By Waqar AhmadPublished 8 months ago 4 min read
A Challenge to Change Your Metaphor
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Living in Washington, DC: A Deep Connection to Place

I've called Washington, DC—fondly known as #DMV—my home for almost 20 years. And let me tell you, this city is so much more than the political battleground you see on the news. It’s a place rich in stories: long-time residents who’ve witnessed decades of change, vibrant communities that thrive beyond the Beltway’s chaos, and hidden sanctuaries tucked within city blocks.

Politicians may come and go, but DC remains—it’s rooted in its history and anchored by people. Neighbors celebrate Mother’s Day traditions, generations grow up learning the city’s rhythms, and friendships bloom in quiet corners away from the chatter of the hill. The real DC—the DC of lived experience—is resilient, playful, and full of heart.

When Dave Hillis and Jonathan Hayden approached me about editing their collection of essays on "city renewal and paradigm of play," I was instantly electrified. It felt like discovering fresh air after long undercurrents of despair. Helping bring that book to shelves alongside BitterSweet felt like a calling—to see the city not just as a battleground, but as a playground: a living, breathing tapestry woven by us.

Cities: Arenas of Hope, Loss, and Connection

Since time immemorial, people have flocked to cities seeking opportunity, shelter, and community—often confronting injustice, isolation, and upheaval along the way. Jane Jacobs said it well: "There is no logic that can be superimposed on the city... it is to people—not buildings—that we must fit our plans."

We all bring our humanity: building, fleeing, hiding, striving. Despite technology and individualism, a deep, invisible pull draws us together—toward shared streets, stories, and struggles.

But here's the thing: how we see the city changes how we live in it. Is it merely a place to survive? A canvas of isolation? Or can it be an open invitation to play, build, and believe again?

The Power of Metaphor in Urban Vision

As Stanley Hauerwas wisely noted:

“We can only act within the world in which we see. Vision is the necessary prerequisite for ethics.”

Our metaphors guide our actions. If we view the city as hostile, our hearts harden. If we see playgrounds, gardens, homes—spaces of belonging—our attitudes shift.

City as God’s Playground

The Judeo-Christian tradition overflows with attention to cities—from Enoch and Cain to Jesus mourning over Jerusalem, to Paul’s urban mission in Acts, and the heavenly Jerusalem in Revelation. But perhaps most poignantly in Zechariah 8:

“Old people...will sit on benches...and children will fill the public parks, laughing and playing—a city good to grow old in...grow up in.”

That vision places both the youngest and oldest at its heart—because when a city cares for its most vulnerable, it shows resilience and health.

Three Shifts from Seeing the City as Playground

1. Theological Shift

The city is not merely functional or forced—it is spiritual. Cities are God’s idea. When we treat them as sacred, restoration becomes possible. As Lewis Mumford and Christian urban theologians say, the spiritual architecture underlies streets and buildings.

2. Sociological Shift

Martin Luther King Jr. said:

“All life is interrelated... Whatever affects one directly affects all indirectly.”

When we treat fellow citizens not as rivals but as partners, generosity replaces scarcity, and community blooms in unexpected ways.

3. Economic Shift

Walter Brueggemann contrasts Pharaoh’s scarcity mindset with God’s abundance. When we see the city as a playground, not a battleground, we see resources as shared, not hoarded. Ideas flow, partnerships thrive, and generosity becomes a habit.

Urban Future: Choosing What We Build

By 2050, 66% of the world will live in cities—so how we see them matters. Will we choose metaphors of fear or flourishing? That decision shapes policies, public spaces, and relationships far beyond urban density.

Father William Lynch warns us: Christians can either withdraw (“build catacombs”) or engage and redeem. The metaphor we live by determines whether we participate in transformation—or hide from it.

Denise Levertov’s poem City Psalm captures this beautifully—seeing mercy in concrete, awe in dust, and kindness within noise.

Why This Matters for You and Me

Playgrounds spark creativity—they remind us learning happens in laughter.

Shared spaces foster equity—parks, benches, and shared sidewalks level inequity.

Caring urban design uplifts everyone—especially the very young and very old.

Spiritual grounding transforms infrastructure—when we build to serve, not just to sell.

What You Can Do Today

Treat common spaces as sacred—see parks as holy places for joy.

Support diverse voices—celebrate the old-timers, the kids, and the new arrivals.

Champion abundance in your circle—share resources rather than hoard them.

Participate—from local councils to neighborhood cleanups, be present.

Change your metaphor—tell your story with the language of playground, not the battlefield.

Conclusion

For nearly two decades, DC has taught me that beyond the partisan headlines lies a city rich in love, heritage, and possibility. When we shift our vision—from conflict to creation, from scarcity to abundance—we find playgrounds within concrete, stories beneath facades, and hope alive in noise.

Let’s choose metaphors wisely. Let’s build cities as playgrounds—spaces of connection, delight, and enduring hope.

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About the Creator

Waqar Ahmad

I have been a professional freelancer and computer science degree holder since 2007. I have been working as a content and article writer for more than 10 years. Providing the best content with better research is my aim.

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