sexual wellness
Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.
The Culture of Sex
In the wake of pressing cultural matters to hit newsreels throughout the country, one such matter has yet to be addressed: sex positive culture. Almost a curse word in the Bible Belt, yet in other regions of the country it is supported and rallied behind with fervor. The reasoning behind both ends is indeed noble, and both sides as well have wacky differences. The lines do blur between the two, causing more of a Venn diagram than two sides of a coin. With both sides having the same end goal at the end of the day, promoting a mental well-being, exactly what makes them so different from each other?
By Harper Wade8 years ago in Filthy
Sex and Me... at 23. Top Story - March 2018.
Let’s talk about sex. I’ve always been a late bloomer. I was the last out of my friends for pretty much everything. I got my period last, I had my first kiss last, had my first date last, and I was the last to get a boyfriend.
By Madison Elliott8 years ago in Filthy
What My 'Sex Talk' Should Have Been
A little disclaimer before we get started: I am so grateful to be a woman in this day and age. Yes, there is still too much inequality going on, but never before could a woman so openly talk about sex, birth control, periods, and female anatomy as we can today. I was raised in a very old-fashioned household, and I was left completely in the dark about my womanhood. My parents wouldn't let me go to sex ed class, and the topic at home was swept aside with, "Wait until after you're married." To be completely honest, I knew absolutely nothing about my vagina until I was eighteen (and even then, I was taught by a boy I met online…but more on that another time). I don't know about you ladies out there, but because I had to learn "on my own," I made mistakes that have greatly impacted my life. I don't want this to happen to anyone else, so I hope you parents out there read this with an open mind.
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions for Dominant and Submissive Females
Rocco Siffredi once said I am the most submissive girl he has ever met, a compliment that I will take to my grave. Submissive by nature, I used to not even have the capacity to switch. The thought of being dominant during sex was so alien to me, it was a concept I struggled with. In my private life I was controlled, told what to do, I enjoyed obeying, I enjoyed being praised.
By Samantha Bentley8 years ago in Filthy
All the Things I Wish Someone Told Me About Sex
Let's start with a bit of background. I grew up in Texas, meaning my sex education was already lacking. The most memorable thing from that class was not even the curriculum, it was how uneducated my peers were in what I thought was common knowledge, double wrapping, the pull out method, and how STDs are transmitted. I remember a kid honestly thinking homo sapien meant we were calling him gay. So I decided to go out and get the information for myself. First off seeing as my teacher was an older male he even admitted to being uncomfortable teaching us about what sex would do to our female bodies. So I turned to the internet as a high school freshman fearing the day that I would have to fling myself into womanhood because all the adults in my life said it would hurt and that I was giving away the most vulnerable part of myself. Even my mother with her purple dyed hair and her seemingly accepting nature had me convinced that sex was not to be happily anticipated. But the years went by and I realized there was nothing to be afraid of, so I delved deeper into the internet's cornucopia of knowledge and decided it was not up to anyone else what would happen to my body. Sex is just SEX, it doesn't have to mean anything and there was no harm in learning what I would like. And so I took the leap and had sex for the first time with a boy I felt safe with.
By Maria Gutierrez8 years ago in Filthy
