breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

This Is Me
So this is me… I’m CJ and this is my story. Where it all started? I never thought that I would have a story to share with the world and that other woman that would change my life, so let’s get to it.
By Chamiella J7 years ago in Humans
“We don’t need no man”
This is for women. Women that are struggling to see what they need or what they want, but most importantly, what they deserve. “We don’t need no man”. That’s right, we don’t. We don’t need a relationship. But some of us still want someone there, someone by our side. We need someone that we can depend on, but not someone we depend on, not someone that depends on us. A relationship should be a factor in our lives that amplifies our happiness, not one that completes it. Please try to remember that when your parter keeps causing you pain. When they blame it all on you- don’t believe it. Don’t let anybody manipulate you into thinking less of yourself. It’s never wrong to work on yourself and a healthy relationship usually aids you in doing so naturally. It’s not easy to let people go that you love, so please don’t ignore the red flags. Don’t ignore the intuitive feeling that lets you know something’s not right. Because you don’t need anybody but yourself. You don’t need them to complete you- it might hurt, but you will be better off in the end. And it will end, sooner or later, and we can all agree that sooner is better than later.
By Amira .7 years ago in Humans
Mistaken Love
In the bad days, I feared myself. I feared what would happen to me if I let this continue any longer. What was I doing? Why did I believe I deserve this? What do I do next?
By Natalie Santana7 years ago in Humans
Second Place
Recently, met a woman who was pretty much what I would call "dream girl." Physically stunning, curious, extremely hard working and caring, plus tattoos. It was a range of superficial pieces I enjoyed mixed in with a lot of depth, insight, and intellect. I would beam with enjoyment and excitement when the opportunity arose to speak.
By Steven Altman7 years ago in Humans
The Difference in Men’s and Women’s Mindsets After Breakup
“Guess what! I swear all my ex are getting hotter after breaking up with me!” I was meeting a guy friend of mine on a Sunday brunch to check on him after learning that he had just called it off with his last girlfriend recently. He came in the café and immediately order a pint of beer.
By Judy Mae7 years ago in Humans
How Did I Allow It to Ever Get This Far?
I don't know where to start, or even how to start. I'm sure you knew my work would begin like this. Confused and unaware... oblivious to what point I'm trying to make, or what steps I'm trying to take. I don't know the moral of this story in all honestly, I just know in my head what I'm trying to say. Even though it may be jumbled, just try to keep up—okay?
By Peaceful Passion7 years ago in Humans
What I Learned from My Failed Relationship
Let me introduce myself. My name is Agnes and I'm a 27-year-old woman that can count on her hand how many relationships I have had. Pretty sad, right? I haven't had that much luck on relationships and I haven't had much luck on guys either. This story isn't for some pity party, but this is something I need to write to tell someone what I've learned from it. What I learned about me and what I should be looking for in a relationship and also a partner. Let me just say, this will have a lot of cuss words in it.
By Agnes Hwangpo7 years ago in Humans
Little Things to Do While Dealing with a Heartbreak
So before I give you tips I’ve personally used that have helped me, I’m not at all saying all or any of these will “definitely” work for you in helping you completely get over a heartbreak. But these small little tips will definitely get your mind off of things and get you back into life and start to feel like yourself again. No one truly understands how much a heartbreak can impact someone’s life and effect it. I developed very unhealthy coping habits that really messed with my mental and physical and emotional health for what most people think it's something that isn’t that “serious.” It’s never easy getting over it so I just wanna give you some easy effective ways to deal with it to start getting your mind off of it.
By Akyia Robinson7 years ago in Humans
The End
I find a lot of happiness in dark skies. I think it's because they remind me of summers back home. No matter how bright the sun shined, you could always expect a storm in the middle of the day. The midafternoon showers frustrated most people in Florida, but I always appreciated them. I think it was the consistency, but also the smell after it was over. It smelled like a new beginning before the moon even arrived.
By Isabel Rodriguez7 years ago in Humans
Should I Be Dating My Ex?
Before you judge me and answer that question with a violent "NO," please know that I AM WEAK. With that being said, here's the juicy story...
By Being Woman7 years ago in Humans
How to Get over Your Ex
Now I understand fully the terms “forgive and forget” or “give 'em a chance” or “it happens, it’s life.” Blah blah blah, yes, we get it, but if it continues multiple times, especially if they have a history of being unfaithful, then he/she got to go.
By Debby Hanson7 years ago in Humans
What About Falling out of Love?
This very idea has been pondering around my mind for some time now. It is a complex topic to write about and candidly, it will take me more time to draw up a complete conclusion of my own but here is where I will take a break and share my thoughts.
By Mariya7 years ago in Humans