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With Practically Nothing, you Could Attain Pretty Much Anything.
At this moment, you are being guided and influenced by the Law of Attraction, which is a powerful universal force that can affect you in ways that you never thought possible. Like the law of gravity, it can also exceedingly impact your life in various ways.
By NotUrAverageSquare4 years ago in Humans
About the power of thought
Today we will talk about the power of thought, about how what we think influences our daily life. By everyday life we mean work, family, and relationships with friends. To think means to imagine, to imagine that you can….Before doing anything, you will think ahead, you will think like, "I could go shopping"; Well, imagine what it would be like to go. If you have a pleasant sensation you will go, if you have an extremely unpleasant sensation you will do everything to avoid this situation.
By Sebastian Voice4 years ago in Humans
How to Find Someone Who is Compatible with You After a Break Up
It's hard to find the right person. But it's even harder when you've just been through a breakup. You may feel lost, needy, and unsure of yourself. You may wonder if you'll ever find love again—or if you even deserve it. The truth is that there is no universally compatible match for everyone: people are complicated and compatibility depends on many factors. And while some people can rebound quickly from a breakup (and yes, those people exist), others need time to mourn the end of their relationship before they're ready to start dating again or thinking about finding someone new. Here are some ways to move past your breakup so that you can meet someone who will make your life better as soon as possible:
By Courtanae Heslop4 years ago in Humans
The Importance of Self-care | Nikolas Onoufriadis
Nowadays, the term "self-care" has become somewhat of a catchphrase. It seems like everywhere you look these days, you see social media reminders to take care of yourself. But we’re all so busy and easily distracted by the media and work that we forget to even think about doing it! I’m here to remind you of the importance of self-care and how to practice it.
By Nikolas Onoufriadis 4 years ago in Humans
Self Esteem
(Nathaniel Branden) Most of us are children of dysfunctional families. I do not mean that most of us had alcoholic parents or were sexually or otherwise abused or that we grew up in an atmosphere of physical violence. I mean that most of us grew up in homes characterized by conflicting signals, denials of reality, parental lying, and a lack of adequate respect for our minds and personalities. I am speaking of the average home. I recall discussing this issue one day with the distinguished family therapist Virginia Satir, who offered an exquisite and appalling example of the kind of craziness with which so many of us grew up. Imagine, she said, a scene among a child, a mother, and a father. Seeing a look of unhappiness on the mother's face, the child asks, "What's the matter, Mommy? You look sad." Mother answer's, her voice tight and constricted, "Nothing's the matter. I am fine." Then Father says angrily, "Don't upset your mother!" The child looks back and forth between mother and father, utterly bewildered, unable to understand the rebuke. She begins to weep. The mother cries to Father, "Now look what you've done!" I like this story because of its ordinariness. Let us consider it more closely. The child correctly perceives that something is troubling Mother and responds appropriately. The mother acts by invalidating the child's (correct) perception of reality; she lies. Perhaps Mother does so out of the misguided desire to "protect" her child or perhaps because she does not know how to handle her unhappiness. If she had said, "Yes, Mommy is feeling a little sad right now; thank you for noticing," she would have validated the child's perception. By acknowledging her unhappiness simply and openly, she would have reinforced the child's compassion and taught something important concerning a healthy attitude toward pain; she would have decatastrophize the pain. Father, perhaps to "protect" Mother or perhaps out of guilt because Mother's sadness concerns him, rebukes the child, thus adding to the incomprehensibility of the situation. If the mother is not sad, why would a simple inquiry be upsetting? If she is sad, why is it wrong to ask about it and why is Mommy lying? Now, to confound the child still more, Mother screams at Father, rebuking him for reproaching their child. Contradictions compounded; incongruities on top of incongruities. How does the child make sense of the situation? The child may run outside, frantically looking for something to do or someone to play with, seeking to erase all memory of the incident as quickly as possible, repressing feelings and perceptions. And if the child flees into unconsciousness to escape the terrifying sense of being trapped in a nightmare, do we blame her well-meaning parents for behaving in ways that encourage her to feel that sight is dangerous and that there is safety in blindness?
By Ayanfe Dolapo to 4 years ago in Humans
Having a Productivity Block?
The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. — Nelson Mandela Life is all about ebbs and flows. One day you wake up to a great healthy start. All is wonderful and life seems bright. The next day, it’s like a tornado hit your home and your life isn’t what it used to be.
By Kristina Segarra4 years ago in Humans
My Therapist Asked Me One Question That Boosted My Creativity Ten Fold
It’s not the quality of your answers that matter in life, it’s the quality of your questions. Life has no answers, only best guesses, arbitrary moralisations, and experiences. Ask why enough and everything is a mystery.
By Jamie Jackson4 years ago in Humans
