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Time is precious, forgive me for not being able to waste it with you
Occasionally I would see a student eating alone in the cafeteria. Most of them are holding chopsticks in one hand and a cell phone in the other, desperately pressing and pressing, as if they are really talking to someone very important. At the same time the mouth kept eating very wolfishly, and then left quickly as if the buttocks were on fire, the whole process looks like an anxious monkey.
By Fra Tusha3 years ago in Humans
Lost in a world of comparison
Your unhappiness comes from not being satisfied with your state and always comparing yourself with the people around you. This is most obvious from the child, no child likes to be compared with the people around them by their parents, but always can not avoid it, parents use to do a comparison to show off, one is to urge the child's motivation, but this way there is no way to let the child focus on the things that should be put, his attention at this time on the "comparison The child's attention is on the "comparison" thing. And this comparison is for the child, but the child experienced a lot of bad emotions, inferiority, disdain, jealousy, hatred, disgust, etc., and very few people can go from the comparison to positive progress. Because in the process of comparison, the focus is on how to be better than each other, how to be better than each other, rather than what they need to do. This is a game process, not a process of growth.
By Diane Dora3 years ago in Humans
It takes courage to face up to your shortcomings
Recently a friend came to me to talk, and said he was upset and depressed, but, it is the most trivial matter in life, and there are no big ups and downs of things, to put it in detail, but also because of the relationship with the boyfriend is not good, more complaints about the boyfriend, I want to mention two as a bystander, but she is completely inaudible, immersed in their thinking mode refused to jump out, I was unable to interject a word. So I'll act as a "trash can" well, keep silent and let her vent her frustrations. This friend of mine has always been the same, loves to complain, and loves to talk, but also particularly stubborn! Every time I want to give her some advice, it is often superfluous, she may want to say this bad emotion to be able to feel better inside, but she does not manage their own emotions, their shortcomings are also blind, after confiding in my way, will continue to repeat the same mistakes and continue to worry about similar things, but will not think about changing their thinking patterns, always trapped in their own The set limits of thinking inside. In the end, you have to say that others don't care about you, don't understand you, and always push the root of the conflict to others, without thinking about what you are doing wrong.
By Miley3 years ago in Humans
Do not wait until life is difficult for you, only to regret the past too comfortable
1 Nowadays, there's a phrase that makes a particularly high profile: live in the moment. You will find that the younger you are, the more people like to say this phrase. Every time I tell my younger siblings to think more about the future, they will use this phrase to refute me: "Sister, are you tired of living?"
By Many A-Sun3 years ago in Humans
Intimacy: A Scientific Guide to Relationships Written for Men
John Gottman, a professor of psychology at the University of Washington, summarized four ineffective ways of communication that must be avoided in intimate relationships, while also giving the corresponding methods and answers.
By Sinha Ceni3 years ago in Humans
Can you still love well if your thoughts are not equal?
It is often said that love conquers all. So, what is love and what kind of foundation should love be built on? Is there love between young lovers? If there is love, why can they break up just because he looked at another girl?
By Miley3 years ago in Humans
Intimate relationships, 8 kinds of relationships that make people suffer
In intimate relationships, we can feel both sweetness and bitterness. We can feel both freedom and restraint. We can feel both security and fear.
By Diane Dora3 years ago in Humans
6 characteristics of emotionally mature people
We often try to learn from our experiences when a relationship fails and emphasize traits such as intelligence, humor, kindness, etc. the next time we look for a significant other. But we rarely hear someone say: I want a man/woman who is emotionally mature.
By Taufik Olu3 years ago in Humans
People who have dreams are not alone
1. Are you lonely? In the morning, you go to work by yourself according to the schedule, and after work, you are packed in the car with a large group of strangers with a lot of sleepiness. The street scene outside the window is so beautiful that sometimes you feel inexplicably moved, and sometimes you feel disgusted for no reason.
By Cindy Dory3 years ago in Humans
When I decided to lose weight
Since childhood, I was an ugly and fat boy, weighing much more than my peers, and the swim ring on my stomach was like a birthmark that never left me. Then before I went to college, I spent a whole summer losing weight successfully, getting rid of the terrible flab, and no longer the fat guy with the roundest face in the graduation photo.
By Cindy Dory3 years ago in Humans
Whatever doesn't defeat you, makes you stronger!
01 Yong Hui my former colleague, not long ago left the business and opened a theme restaurant. A few days ago, I was a little surprised to see him posting a status in his circle of friends that the new store was doing a lot of business and was busy. The day before, he also told me that because the dishes are not distinctive enough, the location is not a busy downtown, business is a little slow, and it is estimated that this month even keeping the capital is difficult.
By Cindy Dory3 years ago in Humans
What if you don't like to cater to others?
"I'm almost an introvert, I don't like to cater to others, but also very emotional, very afraid of losing. In other people's eyes, I may be a little cold, see people I know not to greet, but I just do not know how to interact with people."
By Taufik Olu3 years ago in Humans